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ā ļøPlease note: I am wordy. Extremely wordy. Iāve tried my best but I also want to be as specific and explain myself as much as possible, so Iāve ended up writing a bit of an essay. You have been warned. ā ļø
Basically what the title says. Iām a Christian who tries to stick to the Bible, and Iām looking for my life partner. But Iām also a nerd and into a lot of things that ostracize me from a lot of my peers, so Iāve turned to the internet.
To start off, in the interest of complete transparency Iād say Iām firmly planted on the libertarian-conservative side of the aisle. While I donāt believe you need to agree with your partner on everything, I understand that politics can be a big dealbreaker for some people.
Iām also a pretty serious Christian. While I donāt require my partner to be religious, I donāt want a partner thatās going to disrespect my religion or push (no matter how gently) me to sin or bend/break rules. Also, my religion informs pretty much every part of my life, so we wouldnāt be able to just ānot talk about religion.ā
Now that 99% of you have left, letās continue: Iām a huge nerd and I have a variety of interests, such as Transformers, Anime, History, Reading, Hiking/camping/general survival, board games, and much much more. This list is by no means exhaustive, and of course, you donāt have to be interested in all the things I am, just okay with me liking them/talking about them. I also have 1 indoor cat and 3 outdoor cats. I love going to cons and shopping but besides that Iām more of an introvert, and the partying, clubbing, going to bars, etc. isnāt something Iām interested in at all. I also really donāt care for sports.
Now for something that a lot of you will call BS on, but itās true: I truthfully do not care for looks. Yes, I have body types that Iād superficially prefer, but Iāve never had a crush on a girl based on her looks. I only become attracted to someone if her personality is similar enough. If we get along like a house on fire, then Iāll naturally end up developing a crush on her and Iāll become enamored with her looks as well. Basically, looks doesnāt make me like the person, the person makes me like the looks. With that in mind, I also donāt care if you smoke (as long as itās not inside, of course), vape, etc, and I donāt have an age preference as long as youāre legal and like, under 30 (meh, under 40ā¦) I donāt care if you have tattoos, I donāt care if youāre a furry or if you have a weird fashion sense or if you like feet, as long as you think youād get along with me Iām game!
I will also note that I really like where I live and for a variety of reasons I canāt see myself moving too far, so if thatās a dealbreaker for you I understand. I donāt mind long-distance though (at least for a while) and I like to take relationships at a pace weāre both comfortable with, so any sort of discussion about meeting up or moving would happen after a while, at the very least after weād gotten to know each other and become comfortable with each other. Ditto for pictures; I definitely donāt want to sext or anything, but before we get too serious Iād want some (SFW!) live pictures for verification of course (again, one we got to know each other).
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