TL;DR - I want to know you before we meet in December.

About me:

32 (Turning 33 this December)

Working professional - IT QA

Atheist

Cynical

Clean - no STI's - Bottom

5'8

Fair brown skin (Mixed-South East Asian)

Dark brown eyes

Shoulder length wavy hair

Relatively smooth - almost no body hair

Goes to the gym at least 5/7 days a week

Love Starved and a Hopeless Romantic

I'm visiting my sister in IL (Des Plaines) this December to celebrate my birthday, Christmas and New Years. I hope to find someone to hang out with instead of installing Bumble or Grindr. Too many failed dates and ghosts in my inbox there.

I'm hoping for a genuine connection that would blossom into something real. More than willing to relocate if given the opportunity. Sexually speaking, I'm a bottom, and I have not been that sexually active for the past decade. Hopefully you would be more top, although experiments are welcome as long as the love is there. My type is hairy and muscular/dad bod guys, femme or masc - doesn't really matter. I just hope you're tired of the match collection scene, are a loyal lover who would never cheat, and are just wanting to settle down with the right person.

My hopes aren't that high in finding someone on here to be frank, but there's this little voice at the back of my head telling me that I should give it another shot. I've met a lot of cool people on here but potential relationships never prospered due to the distance, and since I'll be visiting that state semi-regularly, I might as well give this another try.

I don't want to go about swiping on Bumble and Tinder the last minute, and I don't want casual, emotionless sex from Grindr. I want to be loved first before I get my ass destroyed. I'm not that sexually frustrated since I have my hands and my toy, but a warm, caring body can't be beat. I'd like to chat with you and build something up now so that when we do meet, it would be magical (there's that annoying hopeful voice in my head again). Hopefully, you, Mr. Right, are reading this. I've been lied to, taken advantage of, and cheated on so much in the past, so I hope you won't do that to me. I want my world view to become optimistic and cheerful. I want to believe in love again instead of fantasizing them in my head. I want to be yours and I want you to be mine for as long as I live.

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