I'm going to preface this by saying this. I don't have a lot to offer in the way of money or assets. I'd like you to see me as the asset. In my last relationship my ex just couldn't do that.

Okay. I'm a 35 year old male living in Portland, Oregon. I'm quite nerdy, but kind of the quiet type most of the time. I do talk a lot with people I open up to though. It just takes a lot for me to open up to folks. I enjoy technology, movies, music, games, science, food, art, nature, coffee and cats. So very Portland of me! I'd ideally like to find someone who likes at least some of the same things so we have something in common. I'm a bit of a recluse. I enjoy being at home when I can. That doesn't mean I'm a shut in by any means. I live with chronic pain, anxiety, ocd and ptsd. These make it hard for me to live, but as I get older I'm able to cope with them better. Just know they will be a factor in my life. I'm attempting to get on disability, but have been denied once already.

Right now I'm big on nostalgia. I've been retro gaming and watching older horror movies for spooky season. I'm a big fan from a lot of things from the 80's, 90's and early 00's. It's nice thinking of my crappy laptop as my gaming rig! I love to talk about computers and future computer tech. I've recently embraced my more manly side and am building an arsenal of tools. I like to kinda nerd out on those sometimes too. You'll typically find me on reddit, shopping online, researching stuff, tinkering with electronics or playing games of course. I do have a soft spot for music and like various types, though I seem to stick to metal and alternative rock. I do like lots of 80's and 90's tunes as well. I never got too into VR. Just not really my thing? I still dig the technology.

I've only been in two meaningful relationships in my life and have gone long periods of time being single. I find past 30 that my contentment with being single has faded and I'm looking for a partner to settle down with. I'm loyal, smart, kind and to the point. I just don't want to be alone for another 7 or 8 years. If you feel like this resonated with you in any way feel free to message me and we'll take it from there.