Hello hello! I’ve posted in other subs looking for platonic relationships and advice, now I’m here looking for a romantic relationship. 🫶 Would prefer people around my age 28 .

I wouldn’t say I want to straight jump into a relationship, but I am open to finding someone that I could possibly see myself being romantically interested in. First off, I would prefer to find someone close to where I live (within California/west coast in general). I consider myself a hopeless romantic, so I’m here trying to find someone who is as cheesy as I am when it comes to romance. Ideally I’d like a slow burn sort of relationship. My goal is to have a long term monogamous relationship. I’m pretty much on the fence about having kids, but I could see myself having kids with the right partner. I like to take things slower than, I think, most people are used to in this world of fast-paced dating apps. . . I’d just like to not be rushed into anything thanks. I don’t necessarily have a timeline I’d just like to take things one day at a time. To be upfront I am asexual, specifically demisexual, so please do not come at me with lewd intentions. Being too forward like that really grosses me out and makes me uncomfortable. If that’s your only way to flirt sorry man that’s not my thing. Not saying I don’t like flirting, just you know have some tact.

Being asexual doesn’t mean I don’t find certain people aesthetically pleasing. If you feel comfortable to do so, feel free to send me a selfie of yourself (IF YOU SEND ME ANYTHING OTHER THAN SFW I WILL THROW YOU IN THE TRASH). Even if I don’t find you attractive I will give you a compliment! I do enjoy complimenting people. :> If I feel safe to do so I’ll send you a pic of me. I also may not physically be your type either and that’s ok too. I personally think I’m cute but I know I’m not everyone’s cup of tea.

Now with that out of the way a little about me: I’m a 31 year old gal from California, specifically the high desert. I’m Hispanic, typical long dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, tan skin. I’m hella short (5’4) and plus size. My Spanish is atrocious don’t ask me to speak it! 😂

I’m working on being a freelance artist currently. I mostly do digital art which includes illustrations and character designs. I’ve been getting into painting landscapes lately. I don’t make big money, but it’s just a journey I’m working on right now. I’m always happy to share my art with people interested in seeing!

I consider myself somewhat of a foodie. I love cooking, so I need to be with someone who appreciates food as much as I do. Not necessarily like an adventurous eater but just someone who’d enjoy eating my homemade meals. Always happy to share food pics of things I’ve made!

I used to work in a garden center and a greenhouse which means I’m pretty knowledgeable about plants! I have a bit of a houseplant collection, nothing too crazy. I do dream about having a sunroom filled with plants one day. That would be the dream!

While I don’t necessarily like using the term because of the vast amount of connotations it can have, I do consider myself a gamer. I play a vast amount of genres. Usually my favorites tend to be RPGs. I tend to play more single player games, so sorry if you’re expecting me to play an online multiplayer game with you it may not happen. . .maybe in the future a couch co-op game instead? 👀 Currently I spend the most time playing on my Xbox Series X or my Switch (eventually I’d like to have the space and save up money for a powerhouse of a PC). Recently, I spent the past few months going through the entire Dragon Age series (for like the billionth time) in preparation for Veilguard.

I feel like my taste in music is similar to my taste in video games. I love a vast amount of genres. I am chaotic and have a giant Spotify playlist with 260 hours of music I like. Usually I tell people not to judge me for whatever comes on when I hit shuffle. Could be a musical soundtrack, could be a K-pop song, could be swing music, could be chiptunes, could be classic rock, could be ska, who knows. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

If my hobbies didn’t give it away I am an introvert. I tend to spend quite a bit of time inside drawing or playing video games. I do like taking small walks in nature from time to time or easy hikes. When it comes to outside activities I like anything that’s pretty chill. Kayaking is super fun, walking along the beach, swimming, all that is great! I just won’t run a mile with you hahaha!

I also come with two cockatiels and a sassy fluffy calico cat. So you must like cats and birds, we’re a whole package. Always happy the share pictures of them!

Hey if you got this far thanks for taking the time to read! You’re a real one and I hope the rest of your day is chill. 💜