Well, let’s address the elephant in the room first.

I’ve been transitioning for 8 years, I’m cute and I pass well, 6’0, 180, white, curvy, have brown hair and green eyes. I’ve had voice surgery, an orchiectomy, and have bottom surgery within 12 months.

I’m currently an online student and aim to graduate in a few months with my second degree. I plan to pivot into a management career as I believe it aligns best with my personality.

I have mental health issues, you can easily figure out which from my comment history but I’ve spent the last few years healing and I put a lot of energy into the connections I value. I’m currently in therapy and medicated and working on healing my attachment style.

I’m pretty feminine in my appearance but have a tomboyish personality. I usually mesh exceedingly well with borderlines/dependent.

I’m a bit of an adrenaline junkie and I’d like to eventually get out more with someone later on as I think it’d be nice to go hiking and do other miscellaneous activities together.

In my free time I enjoy spending time with friends, playing games, programming, writing poetry, taking walks, and more.

I mainly play FFXIV currently as I run a business on it, but I enjoy Rocket League, Overwatch, MMOs, Minecraft, open world , horror games, and more. I’ll play about anything, just want to enjoy my time with someone.

I have a morbid sense of humor and often times can be too direct, but I’m generally laid back and just trying to enjoy my time. I enjoy affection and playfulness, and even obsessiveness with boundaries as I’d prefer to not be too-smothered.

Info dumpers and people who talk a lot are always welcome as I enjoy hearing about the things they’re passionate about/interested in. I especially like to hear about the random thoughts they have throughout the day and how they’re doing.

I’d like to have someone I can trust and find a sense of home in, play games or do activities with, comfortably sit in silence, watch movies or shows together, sleep on the phone with, and other small sappy things.

As for a connection, I value loyalty, honesty, communication, and respect above all else. If you have any problems I expect them to be thoroughly discussed, if you aren’t interested anymore or feel a need to cheat just tell me and we’ll either open the dynamic or separate. I do not enjoy wasting my time and energy.

If you think you’d be interested in having a connection with someone who actually tries and wants to make things work then send me a message about yourself and your thoughts on the things I’ve said.