I’ve been on this site for almost a few years now, on and off hoping to find my person, someone I can build my life and settle down with. I’ve met some decent people and even dated for a bit, but otherwise it’s been an up and down path towards true love

 This is a genuine post. I’m not doing this for karma.

A little about me: I’m 40, single, no kids yet. I’m plus size, fat, BBW, whatever you want to call it; latina (though more mixed mutt). I'm not shy but sometimes I can be.

I like to believe I’m funny; I enjoy teasing those I love. I'm supportive, honest, loyal. I can be stubborn and feisty. I can be a shit talker, and if you’re one of those also, I’ll love you. I'll fight you over the last donut or taco *wink*

I’m not for everyone, but I am for the right man.

I enjoy reading a wide load of books, cooking, watching sports (football and hockey though taking a break from football because I don’t want to see the chiefs win another title or tater swift) love to swim also. I’m not much of a nerd. I think the closest thing to that for me is I’ll game on occasion (RE is my jam). I’m not into anime unless it’s old school Simpsons.

My job keeps me moving and I like to keep active (when I’m not lazy or tired from work) so I’m looking for the same in my partner, whether he likes to lift weights or what not. I’ve never been camping so I’d like to try that sometime or playfully spar together (I’m a tomboy at heart so I like those things). If you enjoy lifting heavy things or getting your hands dirty, I hope you don’t mind if I watch.

My kind of man is the tall, strong, brawny type. Broad shoulders and all that. if I could sit on your lap without squishing you, I’ll be in love.

I'm looking for someone kind, hardworking, good head on their shoulders, funny, honest, family oriented. Someone I can feel safe and be myself with.

I can also see the appeal in why some people find those in uniform (military, firefighter, police) hot. Personally I see too many cute cops out there, not a bad thing to me.

I’m looking for someone near or around my age only (I’ve gotten messages from men in their 50’s, even in their 60’s so if you’re one of them, I’m not interested) and please be a billion percent single. I’ve gotten replies from guys who weren't . And I can tell.  I also prefer Caucasian because honestly, its what I've always been attracted to.

I wish everyone the best of luck in finding their love. They're out there.