Hi (again)! I'm here once more I'm genuinely trying to be optimistic, positive, glass half full thought process in this search (I've been blessed enough to meet people fortunately, but nothing that has stuck), but I never would have imagined that finding a special someone where we can feel a mutual attraction, and a genuine, serious desire to meet in person would be so absurdly hard to find. As someone with no skeletons in the closet and nothing to hide, a clean slate of health, in a good place mentally and a ton of energy to give, I would love to find someone who simply wants the same thing as I do, with as much of an initiative as I do to spend the time getting the elephants of the room out of the way to work towards an in person relationship. I am fine starting online, but I really want to experience the joy of meeting someone I am into more than anything! If you feel the same way, I'd love to share a bit about myself, so keep reading!

In any case, I'll start off with some basics! I'm:

• 6'1, hispanic (I do speak spanish!) pictured here: https://imgur.com/IIy7Hqe
• A bit of a nerd! I love video games, board games, reading about our world, learning something new, and I'm trying to hack it as an engineer in tech as best I can!
• someone that loves sports! I'm big on basketball (playing), watching (all others) as much as I like devoting time to going to the gym to stay active and would love to find someone that enjoys the same.
• Consider myself to be really talkative as much as someone who feels more sure than ever of what I want to add to my life, or else this write up wouldn't have a point to it, right?

With that being said, I'm here because for the past couple years, I've been missing that close, physical touch that comes with spending time with someone in person! Whether you're already local or open to relocating eventually, I'm looking for someone that:

• Is younger than me (nothing anyone's doing wrong if you are older, I'm just tired of being the younger of two)
• looking for a biological family one day (being a dad is something I've always wanted to be)
• open to relocation (got a lot to offer, including a place to make this easier!)
• is opposite of me when it comes to preferences! What I mean by this is that I grew up for the longest time around people of a similar culture, I'd love to get to know people from completely different backgrounds! Thus, while I've dated in the past of similar backgrounds, I have a preference to white/european/asian/chinese! I am open to similar, but I've wanted to learn from those I didn't grow up around and I'm a sucker for opposites attract!

I've had to return here over and over because it's been difficult to find someone that wants to commit time to actually build something (or there have been differences in logistics that make closing the gap difficult/impossible) and while I'm generally an optimist, time isn't something anyone gets back, so I'd love to meet someone that is genuinely serious about seeing if we click!

If you feel like we're looking for the same thing, talkative, open to voice/video calls (I'm tired of being lied to when it comes to appearances and I'd love to verify early), and want to walk ourselves off of here and take this outside a screen, I'd love to hear from you!

I'm open to starting online, but I'd love to change that if we vibe fairly soon! Hoping I can chat with someone soon!