Hey there! This is a long post so please read it patiently. I’m a 23-year-old guy from the United States, and I’m here hoping to find a serious, long-term relationship with someone who is ready to build a real connection. While I’m based in the U.S., I’d prefer to connect with women from the U.S., but I’m also open to getting to know women from other countries if we click well. Long distance doesn’t faze me as long as there’s a plan to meet and see where things go in the future.

A little bit about me: I’m an extrovert who thrives on engaging conversations. I love binge-watching shows (recommendations are always welcome!), diving into a good book, and trying out new cuisines. I also enjoy staying active through swimming and spending time outdoors—whether it’s hiking or just enjoying the fresh air. I find balance between being active and winding down with a good movie or series.

Humor plays a big role in my life, and I think life’s best moments are often the ones filled with laughter. I’m the type of person who enjoys sharing witty banter, but I also value deep, meaningful conversations. I think the strongest relationships are built on good communication and trust, and those are two things I take very seriously.

I’m looking for someone who shares these values: honesty, humor, and a genuine interest in getting to know each other deeply. Someone who isn’t afraid to be themselves, whether that means being creative, spontaneous, or having quirky hobbies. I appreciate a woman who is passionate about her interests, whether it’s her career, hobbies, or personal goals. It’s also important that we support each other’s growth—both as individuals and as partners.

What I’m seeking:

• A woman aged 20-28 (although I’m open to older if we vibe well) who values building something lasting.
• Preferably someone from the U.S., but I’m open to meeting women from other countries if the connection feels right.
• Someone who is kind, caring, and knows how to enjoy life, whether that’s through small moments or grand adventures.
• Someone who enjoys both meaningful conversations and light-hearted fun.
• I’m open to all body types, races, and backgrounds—what matters to me is our connection, trust, and the potential for shared experiences.

While I’m fine with long-distance at first, I’d love for us to plan to meet in the future. Whether you’re from a different city or country, I believe that distance doesn’t matter when two people are serious about building a future together.

A bit more about me: I’m a big fan of voice and video calls once we get to know each other a little better, as I think it helps us feel more connected. I’m not here for endless talking stages or casual flings—I’m serious about finding someone to build something meaningful with. I understand we all have busy lives, so I’m not expecting constant communication, but I do appreciate open and honest conversations where we check in with each other regularly.

If anything I’ve said resonates with you, please send me a message with your age, location, and a little about yourself—what you enjoy, what you’re passionate about, or what you’re looking for in a relationship. I’d love to hear more than just a line or two about who you are!

I’m happy to move over to Discord once we’ve chatted a bit since Reddit chat can be a bit tricky. I’m really looking forward to finding someone who’s just as serious about finding love as I am.

Let’s get to know each other and see where this journey leads!