I want to be with someone who chooses me. Who sticks with me because of my quirks, despite my flaws and because they genuinely want to try. Effort is such a beautiful love language. I wouldn't give a shit about any physical gifts or anything monetary. Maybe I'm too much of a hopeless romantic to find this kind of love on Reddit and maybe I'm that touch starved to be hoping for something, but I literally have nothing to lose if I ask and post.

I would love to fall asleep in calls with you, ask you if you've had eaten, if you've hydrated or if you need to get some rest or some time for yourself. We'll play cozy games or I'll watch you. We'll watch movies and shows, and we'll learn each others' cultures. We'll grow together and one day find something dumb and random to laugh about and it'll become the start of a billion inside jokes.

I will choose you just as much as you will me. Your energy will be matched with mine in a way that I can show because we might have different ways of expressing. My cup of affection will always be full for the right person, even overflowing and ready to give. But I'm not dumb enough to throw my entire being without leaving a piece of my heart for me. Not anymore. I want to experience this life with my co-adventurer, not my prince charming coming to save this princess. After all, I'm a horrid loot gremlin and I will pick everything up with you.

As much as I want to go on adventures, I have horrid cooldowns due to having a condition that leaves me feeling anemic and light headed often. But I have medications for it and I've been working out to help. I'm plus sized, 5'5, brown with black hair. Humor has always been my chronic defense mechanism and I'm a person pleaser at heart. For the right person, I can also be very intimate. This is what I sound like. https://voca.ro/1kgrVtEm8Bis

Anyone is welcome to message as long as you're between 27-33 years old. This is non negotiable. I appreciate a message that's longer than 5 words. Let's be honest, comprehension is extremely hot. I adore texts and voice calls and I love hearing a nice deep voice. I find African American men to be charming, but I'm very much open. These are only preferences. Who knows? You might sway me. Willing to relocate for the right person also.

I appreciate you taking the time to read this. Hope you have a wonderful weekend!