I’ve been on this site for almost a few years now, on and off hoping to find my person, someone I can build my life and settle down with. I’ve met some decent people and even dated for a bit, but otherwise it’s been an up and down path towards true love (that’s part of  life right?)

 This is a genuine post. I’m not doing this for karma.

A little about me: I’m 40, single, no kids yet. I’ll be upfront that I’m plus size. Also Latina (though more mixed mutt). I'm not shy but sometimes I can be.

I like to believe I’m funny; I enjoy teasing those I love. I'm supportive, honest, loyal. I can be stubborn and feisty. I can also be a shit talker, and if you’re one of those also, I’ll love you.  I’m not for everyone, but I am for the right man.

I enjoy reading a wide load of books, cooking, watching sports (football and hockey though taking a beak from football because I don’t want to see the chiefs win another title or tater swift) love to swim also.

My job keeps me moving and I like to keep active (when I’m not lazy or tired from work) so I’m looking for the same in my partner, whether he likes to lift weights or what not. I’ve never been camping so I’d like to try that sometime or playfully spar together (I’m a tomboy at heart so I like those things). If you enjoy lifting heavy things or getting your hands dirty, I hope you don’t mind if I watch.

I'm attracted to the tall and strong, burly type of man. Broad shoulders and all that. if I could sit on your lap without squishing you, I’ll be in love. I'm looking for someone kind, hardworking, good head on their shoulders, funny, honest, family oriented.

I can also see the appeal in why some people find those in uniform (military, firefighter, police) hot. Personally I see too many cute cops out there, not a bad thing to me.

I’m looking for someone near my age (I’ve gotten messages from men in their 50’s, even in their 60’s so if you’re one of them, I’m not interested) and please be 5,000% single. I’ve gotten replies from guys who were not single. And I can tell.  I also prefer Caucasian because honestly, its what I've always been attracted to.

I wish everyone the best of luck in finding their love. They're out there.