From a part of Scotland that sees other countries before my own on dating apps (Stranraer, the South West) and can honestly say I've never met anyone on any subreddits or apps mainly because the pool is small and the options are bad lol :|

I am a secondary live in carer and get abuse on a daily basis, having no outlet and no one to do things with is a very grey existance ngl, I do cook and bake when I have the energy, its usually successful enough and allows the potential to break the cycle, even if just a little.

I also volunteer doing admin stuff in a few places...but get ignored entirely by the staff and other volunteers, which is kinda funny but not really? It at least marginally helps disabled people/children so ¯_(ツ)_/¯

I guess I watch a bunch of stuff? Mainly youtube and podcasts, brain is broked so silence is uncomfortable lol, I do watch shows and movies too, mainky to fill time. I also play a few games, but rarely for long, its generally a semi sunk cost fallacy, before just getting irked lol, havent owned a console in years and never gotten into PC gaming so its generally mobile stuff...but not like casual stuff because eww.

What am I looking for? Always have been looking for someone at a realistic distance to do hang out with and do things? Something serious has always been the goal. Despite this its always just men (trans females I am cool with) and/or people outwith Scotland...if anyone that replies lol. Which despite making it clear every time, these always get ignored o,o. I do fully intend to move at some point, just not without a good reason ya feel me

As a bonus, dogs like me at least? I am aware this is...in no way a stand out advertisement, but like anything M4F will be downvoted and never get responses so who even cares :P.