I’ve been on this site for almost a few years now, on and off hoping to find my person, someone I can build my life and settle down with. I’ve met some decent people and even dated for a bit, but otherwise it’s been an up and down path towards true love (that’s part of  life right?)

Having gone over the past conversations I’ve had, I’ve noticed that a big chunk of the men who reply are not looking for anything serious, or just looking to make friends or get laid. Or they don’t put forth the effort in getting to know someone. I’m avoiding all that.

 This is a genuine post. I’m not doing this for karma, nor am I a bot.

 A little about me: I’m 40, single, no kids yet. I’ll be upfront that I’m plus size. Also Latina (though more mixed mutt).

Thanks to my job and previous jobs, I'm not what you might call shy.

 I enjoy reading a wide load of books, cooking, watching sports (football and hockey though taking a beak from football because I don’t want to see the chiefs win another title or tater swift) love to swim also.

My job keeps me moving and I like to keep active (when I’m not lazy or tired from work) so I’m looking for the same in my partner, whether he likes to lift weights or what not. I’ve never been camping so I’d like to try that sometime or playfully spar together (I’m a tomboy at heart so I like those things). If you enjoy lifting heavy things or getting your hands dirty, I hope you don’t mind if I watch.

I like to believe I’m funny, supportive, honest, loyal. I can be stubborn and feisty. I’m not for everyone, but I am for the right man.

 What I’m looking for quality-wise is someone who has a good head on their shoulders, hardworking, honest, kind, laid back, handsome, funny, and very family oriented (my family means a lot to me).

 I do have a strong preference for the tall, strong burly type (I’m about 5’8 so the taller the better) If I can sit on your lap or be lifted with not much problem, I’ll be in love, haha. I prefer caucasian

 That aside, I prefer someone 100% single, caucasian, local if possible.

I wish everyone out there luck in finding their love. and if not, it's okay to take a break. OLD can feel like a tedious job search.