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26 [F4M] Indonesia/Online - looking for serious LDR / Companion with older East Asian man preferably from Singapore Malaysia . Must Be Clingy , an emotional fluffer! no sexting please
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wintersonatafever is a female age 26 looking for a male in Malaysia
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I'm a Chinese girl looking for a serious LDR relationship with a Chinese East Asian guy, ideally from Southeast Asia. I prefer someone from Malaysia, Singapore, or Taiwan / Hongkong , as our time zones align, making it easier for us to chat and connect. I'm avoiding connections from the West because of time zone differences, which can limit our chat and activity time together.

Let's get this clear from the start: I'm NOT interested in anything NSFW. No sexting, video sex, or similar activities. I value meaningful connections and genuine conversations.

What am I searching for? Well, I'm seeking someone open to LDR, someone who's clingy, an emotional fluffer (yes, you read that right!).

I'd like to know a guy who is ready to share his life with me - and I mean all aspects of it. Your job, your dreams, your plans, your fears, successes and failures. Chores, passions, problems, vulnerabilities, fantasies, experiences, expectations. All that forms you and influences you. I'd like to know you so well as if I was the mirror you're looking into being completely naked and honest. And I'd like to return all of that on my part. I'd like to be your friend, confessor, lover, advisor, someone you can laugh silly or discuss deeply. Feel free, secure and happy in your presence. Feel being cared about. You know this feeling when at some point you start checking your phone more and more often to see the notification? The thrill that goes with it? A message every morning and every evening, maybe consisting of just 1 word, but written just and especially for you. Knowing that somewhere out there there is someone who really thinks about you throughout the day and longs for a little reunion every day. Maybe it's silly. Maybe it's not realistic. But why should we dream low?

I'm serious about all of this. This is, ideally, a long-term (indefinite term?) relation. But big things usually start small - I want to talk to you and slowly know you. Build mutual trust and bond. Just like each other and invite each other to our worlds. Spend time together and enjoy it. If it clicks, we won't even notice we want more and more. Before we vibe check in person, I'd like to be a LDR thing.

Currently, I'm focused on job hunting for my first full-time position and at the same time running my family business, so my schedule is quite packed. Having someone I can talk to, vent to, and share life advice with would be incredibly valuable to me right now. I appreciate daily calls in the long run, but if you prefer texting over calls, there's no need to send me a DM.

Physically, I'm 5'3 with dark brown eyes and a smile that lights up the room. While I'm on the thiccer side, I'm actively working on my fitness. I have a figure that's huggable, and I'm hoping to find someone who is interested in breaking my single streak.

So, what can you expect from me? Well, apart from our daily connections and meaningful conversations, I'm all about experiencing life's adventures. Whether it's trying out new cuisines, or going on spontaneous hikes, count me in! Additionally, I'm quite skilled at Tom & Jerry Chase mobile and would love to game together.

Now, here's the fun part—I'm a massive Badminton fangirl! I'm always keeping up with the latest news and matches, so expect some lively discussions on that front. And let's not forget my guilty pleasures: boys love content and horror! I can spend hours watching live streams of horror games, getting spooked and loving every minute of it. Plus, I've got a thing for numbers—I find joy in tackling math problems and exploring the beauty of mathematics.

When it's time to unwind, you'll often catch me vibing to R&B/Soul tunes. There's just something about those smooth melodies that speaks to my soul and helps me relax after a long day.

What I'm looking for from you is simple: good communication and a willingness to compromise. I believe these are the foundations of any successful relationship. It would also be great if you were older and taller than me, and if you're single, never marrled with no kids, that's even better.

If you think we might hit it off, feel free to send me a DM. Let me know your ASL (age, sex, location) and a brief intro about yourself! Who knows? Maybe we'll grab coffee or boba together someday. Looking forward to hearing from you!

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