Hi for the Nth time!

I wasn’t really sure what I wanted the first few times I posted here, hence why I keep deleting and reposting but I am back and I think I got it this time.

I am looking for a real connection and I hope to meet my lobster sCRAWLING here🥴🤭 (or not…I am most certain not to meet him on any dating apps or bars, because I’m not on dating apps, some people on dating apps are kinda sus and I find bars too loud, being that I am in my 30s). Lobster is in reference to one of my all-time favorite sitcoms, but also I’m being biased since I’m a 90s kid. Plus points if you happen to know what that show is, if not then it was nice for you to have read this far.😅

I would like to say let’s see where things go and I would be fine with it for a short while but eventually I’d be lying to myself if I say so because I know what I want and seeing where things go and not being intentional is a waste of time and energy.

I signed up for reddit three something years ago and was told you can meet people here, never figured out how that worked since signing up. I didn’t know about dating/relationship subreddits so this account was just dormant up until early this year when a good friend posted on a dating/relationship subreddit and had success (after kissing many frogs). She might have met her person here and I am genuinely happy for her. It just got me thinking that maybe…just maybe…there’s someone out there for me too. I don’t think I believe in such unless proven otherwise.🤷🏻‍♀️

Anyhow, things I am NOT that I commonly read as people’s preferences here are: 1. Nerdy Gal 2. Bookworm 3. Gamer (I play video games but probably not enough to be considered as such)

About me: 1. Southeast Asian. 2. Working remotely in Sales and Marketing. 3. 162cm, fair-skinned, black hair, dark brown eyes, and a little chonky LOL! 4. Single, with the most adorably clingy doggo, at least for me. 5. Introverted; possibly socially awkward but can be an ambivert to new people and people I’m comfortable with. 6. Homebody; probably the most boring adult but I’m comfortable being at home. 7. Slow burn.

Things I like: 1. My dog🐾 - He is turning four this year. 2. Cinnamoroll🤍 3. True crime series, Docudrama, Korean drama (used to anyway), Reality shows, Food and Travel Vlogs, 4. Music. 5. Taking care of my herb plants and flowers. 6. Crocheting. 7. Journaling. 8. Walking, Hiking, Running. 9. Food LOL! 10. Baking…for my dog and people I like.

What I’m looking for: 1. Single, no kids. 2. Decent. 3. Taller than me. 4. Emotionally available. 5. Honest. 6. Intentional. 7. Consistent. 8. Assertive. 9. Stable. 10. Someone who will like me, obviously. It wouldn’t hurt if said person has a pleasing personality, I promise I’m kinda cute but then appearances are subjective so that is debatable.

**Age preference: 33-39

Can send a picture of myself after you, being that you are a gentleman. See you on the other side.😊