Hi! Heads up, this is long but it's long for a reason.

I'm Megan. I'm 34, I'm 5'2", plus sized with dyed dark copperish hair and brown eyes. I have 2 facial piercings(septum and Medusa), and 4 tattoos, 2 of which are ghosts lol. I'm queer but just now exploring my sexuality. I've only ever dated men so this is very new to me but I know I'm not straight. I'm open to the possibilities just not cis men. Sorry.

I'm a month out of a long term, abusive relationship. I'm in the process of restarting my life and figuring out who I am. I'm currently in my healing era and would love if someone right came along for the ride. Please don't message me with the intention of ghosting me. I need effort, and I will try to reciprocate if the vibes are right.

Anyway...

My biggest obsession is the paranormal, specifically spirits and ghost hunting shows but I like cryptids too. I will talk to you for hours about ghost related content. I also love anything spooky and odd, and also true crime. Big big fan of cows (I currently live like almost across from cows and I also have 3 cow stuffies) . Music is a big part of my life and I love EDM, like 90s alt music the most but I listen to anything that sounds good. Be prepared to get songs sent your way. I love the summer for the warm weather and being able to go to beach, and fall for spooky, cozy vibes. My fav holiday is oddly enough Christmas though. I love cooking, video games, going for walks, camping, and cruises. I'm a mixed bag of interests and we'd be here all day if I posted them all.

I also want to add that I'm neurodivergent and mentally ill so please understand this before messaging. Feel free to ask questions if you want to understand that side of me better.

Looking for someone who's none of the phobics (transphobic, homophobic, etc etc) and not ableist, sexist, ageist, etc..just basically someone who's tolerant and nonjudgmental and not an asshole. I have a preference for alt/goth aesthetic, piercings, dyed hair, tattoos but ultimately looks doesn't matter to me, as long as you're a good person. I want to be able to send reels and tiktoks to, talk about life, joke and laugh with, maybe game with or watch movies with you. I need someone who understands my situation and is willing to be patient with me while I heal. I ideally would like something long term but I'm not rushing into anything.

So if that's you, please message me. Try to say more than a simple 'hey'. Introduce yourself if you will, helps me see if we'd be a good match. I probably won't respond if you just say "hey whatsup" or throw a petname at me and call it a day.

I have pics if that's important to you and other social media platforms to talk on.

If you read all of this, kudos to you! Hopefully, we'll talk soon.