Hi,

I'm looking for a real, mature, empathetic human--Not a dating app sociopath...

The dating apps aren't doing it for me, so here we are...

I'm a creative type. I write songs and letters and they don't suck. I'm prepared to defend that statement. I used to play the indie rock scene in Philly/NYC back in the day. Now, I make music at home and sometimes write.

I'm a very giving and nurturing person. I'm looking for someone who appreciates that.

Creativity in all forms is sexy. Smart is sexy; Clever is irresistible.

“Years ago, in my earliest and pastiest days as a would-be writer, I once read a new story aloud to S. and Boo Boo. When I was finished, Boo Boo said flatly (but looking over at Seymour) that the story was “too clever.” S. shook his head, beaming away at me, and said cleverness was my permanent affliction, my wooden leg, and that it was in the worst possible taste to draw the group’s attention to it. As one limping man to another, old Zooey, let’s be courteous and kind to each other.”

I have a good job and a nice house and huge garden (for center city) that is empty because I don't have a green thumb.

I'm into some stuff that I'm not allowed to mention in this sub, so you might want to see my other posts.

If you're into Trump, we're not going to get along.

I'll share pics as soon as we start chatting and I'll expect the same.

Vaxed, boosted and regularly STI tested.

Here are some things I like:

Movies: Wings of Desire, The Jerk, Secretary, Reuben & Ed, Sid & Nancy, Bill & Ted, Harold & Maude, Blade Runner, Annie Hall, Rear Window, Zombieland, Better Off Dead, Scott Pilgrim, Shaun of the Dead, Spinal Tap!, Pootie Tang

TV: Bob’s Burgers, Always Sunny, Game of Thrones, Dexter, Community, Troy and Abed in the Morning, Battlestar Galactica, Firefly (pretty much anything sci-fi), Sherlock, MST3k, I Think You Should Leave, Fleabag, Broad City

Books: (Lots of the classics) Salinger, Kundera, Confederacy of Dunces, To Kill a Mockingbird (Fun fact: this was written by Bruce Lee's sister, Harper.), Day by Day Armageddon.

Bands: Haywood, Archers of Loaf, Seam (Those are all 90's indie bands), Elliot Smith, Wet Leg, Frightened Rabbit, Phoebe Bridgers