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About Me

I'm 30 y/o, former film maker turned IT wizard with a dry sense of humour that's marinated in goofiness. Standing at 5'6" with a slim-build, a light beard and dark hair; I am softly spoken, a hard-worker, a good listener and a introspective introvert who has a tendency to think deeply about things. Friendly observers have regarded me someone that's kind, intelligent, really decent, organised, diplomatic and sincere - But please feel free to take these for what it's worth. I am also a non-smoker and a rare drinker who values honesty almost to a fault, reliability, patience, kindness and (emotional) intelligence.

How did I get here

Due to the nature of my career and the routes I've taken in life, my peers tend to be older men who juggled between further education, their career, a mortgage, a relationship, kids or all the above. While I have tried to branching from my introverted ways by attending a variety of meetups and most recently dancing to jazz on occasion, I have yet to meet the person I'm looking for. I suspect that I may be demisexual, so think of me more like a slow burner who's open to learning new things.

What I'm looking for

I hope to meet someone who is open-minded, gentle and patient, especially when it comes to intimacy. Ideally aged between 28-39 or thereabouts who shares similar values and interests. I'm attracted to women with a healthy weight who demonstrate initiative, but if you're not that person, this could be an opportunity for me (or us?) to work on too. If you find yourself with a similar level of inexperience, I'm open to getting to know each other as friends before anything else. Pictures (SFW) are available upon request, but only if we compliment each other's vibe. Like I said, I'm a slow burner, so don't fret too much about sending me a message. I'd be delighted to hear from you. :)

[Tagging as explicit as I'm ultimately looking for something more than friendship. However, happy to keep things SFW with regular friends from the outset!]