Hi, I'm Selene. My friends call me Lena or just Selene, or "you absolute legend." That last one is defo true. AI verified and everything.

I'd describe myself as gentle, chill, and understanding. Often surprise people with my eccentricity, creativity, and interests once they get to know me. Lots of "Oh wow, I didn't expect you to ___" is said to me often. So maybe I come across some type of way. I have no idea.

I have feminine "energy" and very much love that about myself. Also, very youthful energy, apparently, as people I meet, assume that I'm 17/18/19 years old. It's a nice mistake. I'm very much happy with my age and embrace getting older as it comes.

Lately, what's on my mind is learning how to sew, make a self-sustaining garden, and travel (and potentially move) overseas. I could see myself living overseas in the future, which is why I'm very open to people outside of Australia.

I want to get into textiles and make my own clothes for my body type. I don't have a weird body or anything, but well fitted clothes are a dream. Plus, it's a cool skill to have. Our kids will be dressed in calico smocks for the first 2 years of their life, and that's THAT. Sketching and painting are my main jams right now. And ice skating. I'm a complete beginner, but it's fun. Yes, it's cold, but if you know anything about subtropical Australia, then you know why I am okay retreating into an ice arena coming in at a freezing TEN DEGEEES CELCIUS. Northern hemispheroes will say "lol, weak" and have left the chat.

I'm the kind of person whose silliness and humor are delivered with a relaxed and almost deadpan delivery. The kind of person that is asked if I'm being sarcastic when I'm actually being serious and asked if I'm being serious when I'm really just being sarcastic. The kind of person whose instinct is to stop and check if someone on the street in distress is okay, and will help them to get what they need or alert someone who can help. I'm the kind of person who speaks up and would rather speak the truth than worry about rocking the boat. The kind of person who loves to laugh. Who finds peace and comfort in the silence and stillness. The kind of person who wants to absorb every sunset. The kind of person who doesn't know all the answers, but will sure as hell do my best to figure out what they could be.

Also, the kind of person that likes things neat and tidy but somehow the surface of my комод ends up crammed with miscellaneous items.

For these reasons (okay, maybe not so much that last one), a somewhat of a sturdy, understanding, strong personality would complement me. Someone who knows themselves. Someone who knows I'll listen to them... but knows I will follow my passions and knows that's when it's best to support me rather than hinder me.

You can be introverted or extroverted, goofy or serious, christian or non religious. As long as you're forthright, I can get along with you.

I'm not looking for someone to change, though I think it's normal for the right person to bring out the best in us as well some new things. I'm excited to have your good traits rub off on me! Show me watchu ghat.

I'm having an overall good time in life, and I believe in myself a lot. Im hoping to find someone similar in that regard who is also ready to build a relationship. I see myself in a long-term relationship with the whole sacred-vow-and-kids thing. As casually as i bring it up, I will say it's quite important to me, morally. I'm hoping to find someone who is excited to go down that path potentially. If it happens, it happens.

Damn I really understand how these things can get real long. Aight, back in, we go.

I don't have a crazy list of deal breakers. I will say that communication shut down during a disagreement is a major turn-off. If we can't show that we want to work together to be on the same page about something (misunderstanding, disagreements, annoyances, something you or I want, need etc) by sorting it out then and there, then it is simply not going to work. Some things can be solved straight away, and some things will be ongoing conversations. What matters is that we have an agreement on how to move forward and a better understanding of each other while doing so.

I'm attracted to someone with direction ⛵️ and physical fitness. Please note that I do not care what your body looks like shape wise. I don't need a particular physique. I just appreciate a bit o' testosterone fueled strength and stamina. I only have a little bit, and I guess opposites attract or whatever. Untimely, the main thing that will determine our relationship is us getting to know each other and putting in that time. Someone who understands women or at least wants to is kind of necessary 😅 I'm slim both physically and genetically (read: not "thick") but im not super skinny and not all at all bone-y. On the shorter side. Small waist, little jiggle.

I know I must come across as absolutely mental for writing this much, if I haven't already for other reasons.

There's probably all kinds of grammatical errors here, but I just want to get the message out.

I know the advice these days is something along the lines of trying to appeal to as many people as possible, but I care not to do that because i really don't want to appeal to many people! I don't need many men. I only want one man. I just want you.

This is me welcoming you to introduce yourself to me, and idk message me with some dealbreakers, I guess?? Let's get that out of the way. What's something you really want me to know about you?

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