long post warning I’m gonna try to be clear & concise, if there’s anything else you wanna know just dm me, or if not then dm me anyway! x

My name is Oliver but most people call me Oli. Honestly you can call me whatever you like. I’m a kind, understanding guy looking for a long-term (hopefully forever) monogamous partner of any gender, to properly get to know and form a real connection with. I love cuddles, deep conversations and quality time, and just having a laugh about silly things. I don’t want to jinx it by saying this, but I’m really looking for someone to fall in love with, somebody I can talk to all night without running out of things to say.

About me:

Physically Im 5’11” (180cm), Broad shoulders, kinda a dad-bod but not like fat, fair/brown hair, a short/tidy beard & blue eyes. I do a fairly physical job so I’m pretty fit & strong if that matters. (Feel free to ask if u want to see pics)

Im a bit of a homebody tbh, I have friends but I don’t go out to clubs or anything. I much prefer staying in, but still love having dates/adventures with someone special. I’m a bit of a big nerd for all the typical nerdy things, Star Wars, LOTR, Pokemon etc, plus I love history, geography and ecology (I studied Geography at University).

In my free time I read quite a lot, and I love to draw and do crafts (woodwork, polymer clay etc). Also I love animals! I have a dog called Maggie and she is pretty much my world. Sometimes I play video games so I wld love someone to play stuff with. Minecraft/stardew/animal crossing stuff like that, but this isn’t essential at all. Also I play DnD once a week with friends.

I’ve been through some mental health struggles in the past so I’m super open-minded about any issues/trauma you might have, and I’m more than happy to talk about anything and help support you in any way I can, once you feel comfortable.

I work a full-time job so can’t message all day but can message (and/or call/vc maybe) most days in the evening. Once we get close I can sometimes be a bit clingy but it’s just cos I care a lot x

What I’m looking for:

• Ideally someone my age or younger, definitely not over 30 or under 18.
• Someone ok with sending pics (once you’re comfortable, just to prove ur real).
• I’m not fussy about body type, but I’d like someone who I’m attracted to facially. I do kinda have a type but I’m open to almost anybody.
• Please be fluent in English.
• Someone who isn’t ace. Im not going to rush into anything nsfw, but I’d hope to talk ab nsfw things eventually when you’re ready. Plus I can be flirty and I wouldn’t want to make you uncomfortable.
• Preferably i wld want someone in the UK or Europe so there’s not too much time-zone difference, but I’m open to talking to people from anywhere.
• Someone with a sense of humour and an open mind.
• Preferably not somebody who smokes loads or does serious drugs (I’m 420 friendly I just mean no hardcore stuff/addiction)
• I’d rather someone with a bit of intelligence so we can have random/deep conversations about stuff, but I’m not looking for a genius idk.
• I’m hoping for someone willing to make an effort - who won’t send only one word replies, won’t expect me to provide the momentum of every convo, won’t always take over an hour to reply, and won’t start my just saying “hi” or “I saw your post”.

I hope this list isn’t too demanding. As I say, feel free to dm if you’re at all interested x