Hello community,

Contrary to the community description I wouldn't describe myself as dating impaired. The hard part isn't going on dates or finding a relationship the issue I am having is finding the right relationship. That's where my challenge lies I have been in plenty of long term relationships which never panned out for a variety of reasons which I won't bore you with. I am a firm believer in the power of intentions and if you get clear about what you want in life and you take action towards it then you can manifest. So I am treating this as another small action I can take towards my intention and hell in the meantime maybe it helps me clarify the vision of what I am looking for by writing about it.

I guess a little about me is warranted. I am a 6 ft. tall Asian guy who is average build, with black hair, brown eyes and lots of tattoos. I am really committed to physical fitness and trains 5-6 times a week. I like to go kayaking with friends on the weekend, hiking or camping anything outdoorsy sign me up. I work remotely so I like to travel and I am a big time foodie. I usually take a couple international trips each year with shorter trips each month domestically so ideally I'd like to meet someone who enjoys travel. Also a big fan of live music so music festivals and live concerts are important to me as well. On the introverted side of things I like to garden (its a nice change of pace from the hectic pace of work), wood working and building things with my hands, playing board games with friends, video games, or having a toke and watching movies on the couch. Me personally I think its safe to say my friends would describe me as a bit of troll/goofball who constantly likes to joke and have a good time (lifes too short to be constantly serious). As much as I like to have fun I can flip the switch and be assertive and I am highly motivated and driven. I work as a Software Architect managing teams of developers so without assertiveness and good communication skills I wouldn't be able to make it in my role. A big part of my identity is self-improvement, I LOVE IT. I like to feel like I am improving in certain areas, and I always feel there is something to work on, because there is. I really do believe if your not growing your dieing and I've made my choice to be the former.

What I am looking for in a partner...I am not sure we have time for that list haha, but in all seriousness I think it really boils down to these key traits:

• I want a woman that is kind, nurturing, thoughtful
• I want a woman who is intelligent, ambitious, motivated and has a growth mindset
• Ideally we share some similar interests (doesn't need to be all)
• Her health and fitness should be important to her. Not looking for a super model, but shes on the path and is at least committed to be healthy.
• I am only interested in a long term relationship irl so not interested in a online only dynamic.

So if this sounds like you feel free to send me a chat and lets talk and get to know one another. Looking forward to your responses

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