Dating can be very frustrating and I'd like to value your time by being as open as possible up front, let's see if we both match:

(If it matters, height wise I'm 5'11/180cm, have blue eyes, deep voice and prefer someone shorter/petite/slim.)

Dynamic

I enjoy being nurturing and having a mentor-like role for that someone special someone who I can pour all my attention, heart and soul into (with reciprocation of course!) It's important to me that whoever I'm with chooses me for me and together we build a long-term, lasting relationship based on vulnerability, acceptance and honesty. We'd pull towards and lean on each other rather than away and be the main people in each others lives.

Personalities

I'm analytical with a more calm, grounded, and stable temperament. Definitely not a risk taker, think someone that's more "slow and steady wins the race" who cares about doing something properly once they start it. Being a computer science major I can have a fixer, problem solving tendency. This does not mean I'm a robot however; I've put a lot of work past few years into my emotional experience and have a sensitive and empathetic side underneath it all. Understanding someone deeply, especially a partner is very important to me so be prepared for me to ask you LOTS of questions. (feel free to ask me anything in return too, I'm an open book!).

Opposites attract right? In a partnership I love the idea of complements and being each others second half so someone who is vibrant, intense and passionate but also conventionally feminine would be ideal. If you tend to dwells on things deeply being dreamy/idealistic or are sensitive/anxious/delicate, maybe even have some sort of mental health condition like BPD that makes you take relationships seriously I feel we'd have a magnetic like attraction pretty quickly, it would feel like we balance each other out in a way, if that makes sense.

Interests, Hobbies, Conversation starters

• Psychology, Philosophy, Spirituality, Reading, Documentaries etc: I enjoy exploring life's mysteries and having meaningful conversations. I'm open to different perspectives and beliefs, and I prefer dialogues over debates. Definitely not a fan of dogmatic, polarising thinking; people who see the world in black and white tend to not attract me as I value cognitive flexibility highly.
• Tech, Gaming: I don't really play competitive games anymore since my teens, but I still like the social aspect of playing co-op games together. I'm that nerdy guy that programs robots and makes nuclear reactors in Minecraft and has random 3d printed gadgets around the house
• J-fashion, Anime: Love people who wear hearts on their sleeves and enjoy expressing themselves. If you dress up elegantly, romantic or cute I'd melt on sight
• Voice, Music: Used to be a sound engineer and voice coach and took part in some voice acting projects. Musically, electronic is my fav genre and I play a few eccentric instruments you've probably never heard of. I could teach you some tricks sometime.
• Healthy living, DIY: Life's just that much more enjoyable when you invest and take care of yourself. I haven't eaten sugar for the past 10 years, have a treadmill under my desk, love to cycle and make sodas and most foods from scratch. Probably tried every cooking method under the sun except the sun itself, maybe some day...

If you've read this far, thank you so much for your time and attention, it means a lot! If you found this compelling shoot me a message and feel free to ask me anything, no stupid questions! Looking forward to hearing from you. 💕