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29 [TF4F] United States, New Hampshire
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Phantasma_ is a trans female age 29 looking for a female in New Hampshire
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I am MtF Trans, about 3 year into HRT

Live in NH and visit MA often, I don't mind drives that are under 1.5hr

I teach Game Programming at a college

I enjoy DnD as well as most other games

I love watching anime with friends, and I don't mind rewatching shows: The joy of seeing someone enjoy something that you enjoyed is often better than the experience of seeing something new.

I love cooking, but I don't love cleaning: Ideally I'll find someone here who's the opposite :)

I'm a hopeless romantic and the one thing I can promise is that I'll make you feel like someone really does care.

Friends tell me that they respect me for my honesty, so if you want a partner who will never lie to you then I'm your girl.

I get attached too quickly, and my first instinct when something goes wrong is to communicate and have a discussion about it so that I can do better. This can be smothering for some people, and when someone just needs space I can often end up doing the exact wrong thing by mistake.

One of the most magical things in the world is when you can show your affection and the other person sees that and matches you, they push back harder. They show you that you can keep being yourself, that you can push further without fear of rejection.

What I look for:

Honesty and Openness (Trust is VERY important to me)

Communication (Its important to talk about issues so we don't build resentments)

Someone who likes Cuddles (I am ALWAYS cold haha)

Overlapping Interests (Doesn't need to be everything, but there needs to be something we can do together/talk about)

Deep Conversations (I hate aimless small talk)

I'll give anyone a chance so even if you don't fit my criteria's perfectly please reach out! I've found that with every relationship you discover a new thing that you didn't know you were looking for.

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