Why am I "forever alone"?

Being childfree makes dating quite difficult.

What am I like?

White, brown hair/eyes, short, a little chubby. Trying to slim down now. I have a "babyface" and often get mistaken for 10 years younger than I am. I'm an INFJ and my love language is spending time together. I'm shy at first and mostly a homebody. My hobbies are mainly reading, gaming, collecting, and watching shows/movies. I'd like to go out more if I had a partner - to museums, parks, plays, special events, things like that.

What am I looking for?

Let's get the dealbreakers out of the way first (all of these apply to me as well):

• Must be childfree, meaning you don't have kids and don't want them.

• Not divorced.

• No drug use (past or present). It's really important to me that my partner shares this value. Drinking alcohol in moderation is fine.

• No avoidant attachment/emotionally distant types.

And here are the non-dealbreaker preferences which might be somewhat negotiable:

• Local to the Bay Area is greatly preferred, but I'd be open to someone in other areas of California if you would be able to visit often. I'd be willing to relocate if things got very serious.

• Age: 23-30

• Race: East Asian, white, or black. Generally not attracted to other types of men.

• Body type: Slim or fit

• Height: Doesn't matter

• Job: Doesn't matter, but prefer someone who doesn't have to work on weekends.

• Personality: Ideally, I'd like someone who's more on the introverted side, doesn't socialize a ton, and isn't into sports. Other than that, I believe I'm capable of getting along with many different kinds of people and enjoy hearing what others are passionate about, even if it's not aligned with my own interests.

Sound like a good match?

When you message me, please include a pic. I will respond to all messages that have a pic, even if I'm not interested, so that you're not left hanging. Thanks :)