Hi, I'm Zak. I'm a 31M from NJ looking for the person with whom I'm going to spend the rest of eternity. I'm looking for a long-term monogamous relationship. I'm 5'9", Asian, and chunky, but working on it (the chunky part, not the Asian part). I'm agnostic/atheist and liberal.

I'm a huge nerd - I like all things Scifi/Fantasy and spend most of my free time playing video games, reading books, painting miniatures, and watching movies. I do like to go outside, but really only when I'm with the right person. I like to do things like go to museums, parks, flea markets, ren faires, and anything really, as long as I'm with you.

I'm pretty happy where I'm at right now. I have an apartment, a car, and a cat. The only thing missing is you. I can go either way with kids. I think it would be nice to start a family, but if for whatever reason we can't or don't want to, I would want to travel the world with you.

My cat is super clingy and so am I, so I hope you'll be able to handle all of the attention. I like to show my love by doing things for you and with you. I'm a big cuddler, I love to give massages and play with hair, and anything else that might make you happy. I want to experience things with you.

I work overnights as an EMT, so I'm up at all kinds of weird hours. I can always answer calls/texts within a couple of hours; it's one of the perks of never being able to sleep. But I've got some cool stories!

Current hobbies:

Books - Currently reading Minka Lesk, The Last Whiteshield. Favorite is Project Hail Mary.

Games - Currently playing Baldur's Gate 3. Favorite is really hard to pick!

Music - Avenged Sevenfold, Queen, Billy Joel, The HU, Dragonforce

This is what I look like: https://imgur.com/a/4Vi0x8D

Some date ideas:

Let's order a ton of Chinese food and spend the next 11 hours cuddling and watching the Lord of the Rings extended edition movies. Don't judge me if I cry when Aragorn goes "my friends, you bow to no one."

Let's make a bracket of different movie monsters and argue about which one would come out on top. Can the tire from Rubber stop a sharknado? Is the turkey from Thankskilling more festive than Santa Jaws?

Let me show you all of the super unique food spots around my area. I just tried to do it with my sister's boyfriend and it took over a week. We didn't even get to the next town over. I think you and I can do it in a day.

Let's go to a museum and have you explain art to me because I just. Don't. Get. Art.

Anyway, that's enough about me. Tell me about you!