Ahoy. I'm a no sugar-coat kind of guy, and I value honesty and being genuine. That's why before I say anything about myself..

Allow me to say firstly, that I have learned something about myself over my years of dating. It will appear shallow, I'm sure. But I've tried the whole "date her because you love her" thing. And I did love her. But it didn't work. At the end of the day, I need something out of my partner. And to put it simply:

I need to be sexually attracted to you.

I have my title set to M4A because I'm not really concerned about your gender. I'm attracted to feminine figured individuals. Whether you're male, MTF, or female - I like the feminine figure. Typically slim, but some pudge or softness is fine. Pronounced hips, nice thighs. Definitely an ass man. I do have a female preference, but I'm not against a cute feminine guy or a MTF as I've said.

I'm sorry, but I'm not attracted to masculine women or men. No, that doesn't mean I'm not attracted to muscular women. But if you have the same pants size as me, large and rough hands and things such as that. Less likely for me. This also goes for largely overweight and obese individuals.

Age doesn't matter to me. I was recently in a relationship with an 18yo young black woman. It was a fun 4-5 months, but she has BPD (not bipolar), and after having a really bad series of anxiety attacks, we agreed that she may be better recovering if she didn't have to worry or be concerned with a relationship. So far she's doing better, but I wouldn't be surprised if we don't pick things back up.

Now that I went way too in depth about that. I'm 6'4, average build, ginger. I've got a large beard and just recently started shaving my head due to the top of my hair starting to thin. Happy to share pics.

Love to cook for others, caring / protective, supportive where I can be, and reliable. I'm a gamer and fiction lover with an appreciation for art and music. I'd be happy to talk about interests and such, but I think I talked enough on this.

Give me a poke if you've made it this far :p

P.S. - I work overnights, so I may not respond until morning or evening.