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Are you her?
You're emotionally expressive, warm and affectionate. It might or might not take time, but you wear your heart on your sleeve for your special person. It's that someone you admire and devote yourself to, someone you want to absolutely vulnerable, build and share your life with and have given yourself permission to love and receive love from. You attach yourself to that person fully and want them to attach themselves to you but you understand that it's not just the quality of someone's presence that is important, but also the quality of their absence too. You desire companionship and so you maintain continuity of the connection, trying to include your partner in your life and you turn towards instead of away. You're in it for the long haul and whether or not you are a seeker of the truth, a daydreaming idealist or just want to spend silly afternoons together, the relationship remains the one thing in your life that you treat seriously.
Some starter topics we could discuss and to give you a general idea of what I like:
- Mental health, self-improvement, psychology and the endless depths and complexity of the human mind and condition, if you want to talk about our inner experiences or want to be understood or even deconstructed/psychoanalysed, you found the guy
- Philosophy/Spirituality, same as above but with a more humanitarian twist
- J-fashion, I love those cute frilly dresses and princess or elegant aesthetics and hope you like them too. We can talk about our fav coords, styles I like: classical/goth/hime lolita, roma/mori gyaru, himekaji, yume kawaii, etc.
- Gaming, yep the reddit favourite, you like Stardew valley, I like Stardew valley, need I say more?
- Tech, computers, programming, beep boop... I have a degree in it so I do those types of conversations well, don't start unless you want to talk a wiki
- Lifestyles, cooking, your psychopathic cat... Do you own the cat or does the cat own you?
- Voice acting and music production, sitting in a studio rn, I challenge you to beat me in amount of voice impressions or accents you can do
🌈COMPATIBILITY TABLE🌈
| Me | You | |
|---|---|---|
| Age | 27 | Younger |
| Height/Physique | 5'11 (180cm), white-skinned, blue eyes, medium brown wavy hair, I'm more than happy to exchange pictures on the chat if you're interested in my profile | Shorter, petite. If you'd feel comfortable and attractive in cute/elegant dresses and find stuff like this compelling we're definitely be a very good match aesthetically 😊 |
| Location | Ireland (born in Poland) | Europe (or EU citizen) |
| Gender, pronouns | Male, he/him/any | Feminine female, she/her* |
| Sexuality | Straight/gynephilic | Anything as long as you're attracted to a guy like me, not sex repulsed ace |
| Romantic/Relationship orientation | Demi (nsfw stuff is off limits unless we connect emotionally first) | Looking for a committed monogamous relationship, life partner, not platonic/aro |
| Have/Want kids? | No | No |
| Vices such as alcohol/smoking/drugs/gambling? | No | No |
| Religion | Agnostic, curious in all perspectives, non-doctrinal, dislikes zealotry | Any as long as not dogmatic/ideological and proselytising (requires me to convert over, so this includes most monotheistic religions) |
| Spirituality / Philosophy | Not that religious but if if I had to describe it... some mix of zen, existentialism, taoism, etc I'm very much a person in my very nature always present in the moment, in the here and now but don't follow any particular path and would prefer to retain my openness | Any as long as open minded to new experiences, a seeker of the true and authentic. Maybe curious in but not too superstitious. If you are a servant or have a sense of duty to a higher power, you believe in the law of attraction, ghosts or glowing rocks or strongly believe in the idea of fate and our lives being predetermined or governed by universal truths I don't feel like we would be a great match. I tend to be fairly grounded and rational, feel context and an individual's own will greatly matters. So does this life, not the next and that you and I are both responsible for our actions |
| Mental Health | SDAM[1][2], Hypophantasia (currently working on improving my visualisation skills atm, if you'd like to mutually hypnotise each other let's talk), Voice clip of me rambling about SDAM and memory (if you're curious to hear my voice) | Open to be vulnerable with time and would like to lean on each other whenever we go through anything. However also understand that I cannot change you and considering we are likely to be in a LDR till we close distance, please know how to take care of yourself physically** |
| Attachment Style | Secure. If using the new DMM model, strategy B1 (distanced from the past). Generally low neuroticism/anxiety. Very cognitive, over-explainer. Usual culprit of anxiety is uncertainty, not keeping me in the dark and transparent communication helps a lot. | Secure or anxious/preoccupied. I don't do so well with avoidants or people who shut down and abruptly leave. If your attachment style is strongly push/pull and hot/cold, please be open to explain and track changes in your mood so I don't get lost. A shared emotional log would be ideal |
| Love Language | Quality Time |
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