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27 [M4F] #Europe - Looking for someone interested in lolita/goth and other cute fashion styles
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Soft-Program-6111 is a male age 27 looking for a female in Europe
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Do you really like pink or blue? Maybe elegant black and white? Have you ever wanted to be (or are) a pretty princess, wearing cute frilly dresses or cosplay... and have that special someone who appreciates it, accepting you wholeheartedly instead of finding it weird?

I'm not sure whether if it's because I could only attend all-boys schools, my mom/sister being more tomboyish and emotionally reserved, and thus had little exposure to feminine figures in my life or if it's because watching magical girl, slice of life, romcom anime or vrchat has wormed its way into my brain but I've realised this warmer, more affectionate kind of energy is one of those few things that can break me out of my analytical mind and have me melt deeply into feelings.

It can be curse and a blessing. Naturally I will tend to pry, ask questions and inquire about everything going on with you and your life. I have a deep desire to understand people and if we are to become life partners... most importantly, you. To people who are more guarded or closed off, the idea of someone constantly trying to figure out what it is that is behind everything they do and makes them tick is terrifying, but to people who've always felt misunderstood it is heaven.

In either case however you could always shut me up with a kiss or a hug:)

About me

I graduated in computer science, and aside from doing being good at talking to computers and machines, I like to cook, go on walk, meditate, prefer documentaries over fiction. I enjoy deep conversations and prefer dialogues over debates. I'm a life long learner and love psychology and could spend time talking about the human mind for hours. Did you notice how we all have a different inner experience? For example I'm aphantasic and don't really see images in my mind but can remember songs vividly. What about you?

Personality wise I'm grounded and stable emotionally like a rock and down to earth and actually do enjoy talking to more emotional/sensitive people, I'm patient in this area so whether you are more on the shy/quiet/sensitive side, feel clingy/needy or just have endless bubbly, chaotic energy, I feel that just adds colour to the connection and my stoic nature would be a good complement!

Looking for

An affectionate warm girl who values companionship and wants to build a genuine, vulnerable and honest connection, based on acceptance and trust. Being life partners able to lean on each other for anything.

🌈COMPATIBILITY TABLE🌈

Me You
Age 27 Younger
Height/Physique 180cm, white, blue eyes, medium brown wavy hair, send me a chat and I'm more than happy to exchange pictures Shorter, if you'd feel comfortable and attractive in some sort of lolita/goth or frilly girly dress you're definitely my type 😊
Location Ireland Europe
Gender, pronouns Male, he/him/any Female, she/her, (Special Note for transgirls)
Sexuality Straight/gynephilic Anything that includes a guy like me
Have/Want kids? No No
Vices such as alcohol/smoking/drugs/gambling? No No
Religion Agnostic Any as long as not dogmatic/ideological that is proselytizing (requires me to convert over)
Spirituality / Philosophy Some sort of own mix of zen, existentialism, buddhism, taoism, others etc I'm very much a stable person always present in the moment, in the here and now but don't follow any particular path, those above serve more as descriptive/explanatory for me Any as long as open minded to new experiences, a seeker, idealists/dreamers welcome too, opposites attract right?
Love Language Quality Time ?
Attachment Style Secure Secure or anxious/preoccupied (I don't do well with avoidants)

Longer table with more psychology/typology stuff on my profile

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