I’m gonna try to be clear & concise, if there’s anything else you wanna know just dm me, or if not then dm me anyway! x

My name is Oliver but most people call me Oli. Honestly you can call me whatever you like. I’m a kind, understanding guy looking for a long-term (hopefully forever) monogamous partner of any gender, to properly get to know and form a real connection with. I love cuddles, deep conversations and quality time, and just having a laugh about silly things. (I don’t want to jinx it by saying this, but I’m really looking for someone to fall in love with.)

About me:

Physically Im 5’11” (180cm), Broad shoulders, kinda a dad-bod but not like fat, fair/brown hair, a short/tidy beard & blue eyes. I do a fairly physical job so I’m pretty fit & strong if that matters. (Feel free to ask if u want to see pics)

Im a bit of a homebody tbh, I have friends but I don’t go out to clubs or anything. I much prefer staying in, but still love having dates/adventures with someone special. I’m a bit of a big nerd for all the typical nerdy things, Star Wars, LOTR, Pokemon etc, plus I love history, geography and ecology (I studied Geography at University).

In my free time I read quite a lot, and I love to draw and do crafts (woodwork, polymer clay etc). Also I love animals! I have a dog called Maggie and she is pretty much my world. Sometimes I play video games so I wld love someone to play stuff with. Minecraft/stardew/animal crossing stuff like that, but this isn’t essential at all.

I’ve been through some mental health struggles in the past so I’m super open-minded about any issues/trauma you might have, and I’m more than happy to talk about anything and help support you in any way I can, once you feel comfortable.

I work a full-time job so can’t message all day but can message (and/or call/vc maybe) most days in the evening. Once we get close I can sometimes be a bit clingy but it’s just cos I care a lot x

What I’m looking for:

• Ideally someone my age or younger, definitely not over 30 or under 18.
• Someone ok with sending pics (once you’re comfortable, just to prove ur not a catfish).
• I’m not fussy about body type, but I’d like someone who I’m attracted to facially.
• Please be fluent in English.
• Someone who isn’t Asexual. Im not going to rush into anything nsfw, but I’d hope to talk ab se ual things eventually when you’re ready.
• Preferably i wld want someone in the UK or Europe so there’s not too much time-zone difference, but I’m open to talking to people from anywhere.
• Someone with a sense of humour and an open mind.
• Preferably not somebody who smokes loads or does serious drugs (I’m 420 friendly I just mean no hardcore stuff/addiction)
• I’d rather someone with a bit of intelligence so we can have random/deep conversations about stuff, but I’m not looking for a genius idk.
• I’m hoping for someone willing to make an effort - who won’t send one word replies and won’t expect me to provide the momentum of every convo. Also I’m tired of people who always take 2 hours to reply. I understand if you’re busy but it’s nice to have conversations where we’re talking in pretty much real time.

I hope this list isn’t too demanding. As I say, feel free to dm if you’re at all interested x