This is my first time here, Im gonna try to be honest and clear but if there’s anything else u wanna know just dm me, or if not then dm me anyway! x

My name is Oliver but most people call me Oli. Honestly you can call me whatever you like. I Live in Guernsey (UK). I’m a kind, understanding Bi/Pan guy looking for a long-term (maybe forever) partner of any gender to properly get to know and form a real connection. I love cuddles and deep conversations and quality time and just having a laugh about silly things.

Physically Im 5’11”, Broad shoulders, kinda a dad-bod but not like fat, fair/brown hair & blue eyes. I do a fairly physical job so I’m pretty strong if that matters. (I’m happy to send pics if you ask)

I’m a bit of a nerd for all the typical nerdy things, Star Wars, LOTR etc, plus I love history, geography and ecology. In my free time I read quite a lot, and I love to draw and do crafts. Also I love animals! I have a dog called Maggie and she is pretty much my world. Sometimes I game casually so wld love someone to play stuff with. Minecraft/stardew/animal crossing stuff like that, but this isn’t essential at all.

I’m University-educated, I work a full-time job so can’t message all day but can message (and/or call maybe) most days in the evening. I’ve struggled with depression & anxiety in the past, but am doing fine now and happy to talk ab it if you’re curious. I’ve had several medium-long term relationships before, the longest being about 18 months and the most recent being about 5 months ago.

What I’m looking for -

• Ideally someone my age ish, definitely not over 30 or under 18.

• Preferably i wld want someone within 2 or 3 hours time difference or less of GMT.

• Someone ok with sending pics (when you’re comfortable, just selfies to prove ur not a catfish).

• I’m super open-minded ab mental health issues and trauma, and happy to support in any way I can.

• I’m not too fussy about body type or ethnicity.

• Please be fluent in English.

• I’d rather someone with a bit of intelligence so we can have random/deep conversations about stuff, but I’m not looking for a genius idk.

• I’m hoping for someone willing to make an effort, who won’t send one word replies and won’t expect me to provide the momentum of every convo.

I hope that list isn’t too demanding. As I say, feel free to dm if you’re at all interested x