36-year-old African American male heavy set I have three jobs no kids I live in San Diego California, not a girlfriend of 6 years and a fiance a 4 months She woke up one day and just decided she couldn't do this anymore and she wanted to party and go to concerts at age 31 I was completely devastated by it because I loved her and we had a bank account we had a dog we had everything together we were both taking care of our parents separately and we were trying to move in with each other but she never attempted to earn extra money I did and I guess the time apart with the third job led to the breakup I'm not bitter or anything like that I just want to be honest I don't want to get on here a lie, I still have an open heart But I'm going to my gym and I'm just looking to talk or meet somebody