This is a bit different from the way I normally post but I figured I would try something different. That being said if you poke around you can find old posts if you are looking for more info. I broke it down into basic information and threw in some random stuff, it’s pretty straight and to the point. ( at least compared to my normal )

Need- someone ok with relocation- Building a house can’t move anymore! Love it or hate it California I be a staying. It get’s hot here so you would need to be able to handle heat as well.

Need- someone who games. Been playing video games since age 4 with legend of Zelda on nes baby. Has always been a part of my life and always will be. I don’t care what platform you play on or what you play, just gaming is enough. Play together/separate, doesn’t matter, its something to bond over and matters to me.

Need-someone who loves intimacy. Physical touch is my love language and I love expressing it. It needs to be something you enjoy or it simply won’t work as I love cuddles. Clingy touchy people ftw

Prefer- someone in California. Obviously closer is better for the sake of meeting up eventually. If however if you are in the US and think we match good I’m open to it, although its going to be really hard with my work and house schedule to get out of state for a trip.

Prefer- someone with other nerdy hobbies. Gaming is the only need, but we will definitely get along more if there are other common things in our lives. Anime/donghua/manga/ board games/ Chinese, Japanese, Korean dramas/ J/K pop/rock/ just to name a few of mine.

Prefer-someone who is more of a homebody then a traveler. I love getting out here and there, especially to places like the zoo or aquarium ( love animals ) I enjoy trips across the state every once in awhile. Would love to visit Japan at some point. If however your idea is to leave the city every weekend, the state every month, and the country every year, that is a no go for me lol. I have no desire to be a world traveler and although i'm willing to do some travel, I’m more of a homebody.

Prefer-someone who loves to call over text. This doesn’t have to be right away of course, and during work I can only text not call. In general though I love talking to someone over texting.

Prefer-someone willing to video call at a reasonable length of time. I don’t know what it is about a lot of people but soon as a video call comes up bam… people vanish. I just don’t get it but it wastes so much time.

Doesn’t matter-height/weight/ethnicity/age- Me personally I am white- 6.2/230/38. Think of me like a loveable bear- tall, hairy ( the Italian gene’s be strong in this one ) lil chubby, and willing to give bear hugs, cuddles, and back scratches. I am very flexible on age, and don’t care about HT/WT/ETH.

Doesn’t matter- Drinking/Smoking/Cannabis- I don’t partake in anything, but its ok if you do, if you smoke you would have to do it away from me though as I don’t like the smell. I guess as I’m typing this actually I would prefer a non-smoker but I won’t turn down the perfect person because of it.

Doesn’t matter- politics/religion/drama- I am not political, not religious, no drama, no social media. Small group of close friends and family. No debt, financially stable.

Doesn’t matter- pets. I currently have none myself but have been around the typical dogs/cats most of my life. If you have any ( even exotic ones ) I have plenty of land on the acreage that I am building the house and more rooms can be added in the future. The point is All pet’s are welcome.
I am probably forgetting some stuff but I just typed this up on a whim.

I am a very simple person for better or worse. Now that I am building a house I feel its time to find someone to spend the days with. I do work a lot since money is disappearing left and right in the 10’s of thousands on a monthly basis ; ;. I won’t waste your time or mine though, lets chat, talk about some stuff and if we feel like it won’t work go our separate ways. Be honest and upfront, everyone has their own definition on what they want, don’t be ashamed of it just speak it.

Chat or mail is fine, send me a message telling me about yourself, what you are looking for, what you want out of a relationship and if appearance is important send some pictures ill send them back, if its not important then you don’t have to right away. That being said I will want a video call after we start talking to make sure you are real so don’t bother messaging me if you won’t video call after a bit, gotta weed out the fakes ya know. Anything one liner or something that looks low effort will be ignored. I know I won’t get that many replies anyway but I’m busy and really only want to look into serious inquires ( if there are any lol ) If I am not your type of main character then I wish you the best in finding yours.