Hi, i'm Indian but doesn't matter where you are from. I can move for the right person. Or even better if you can come to India. I'm searching for a woman whom I have an understanding with, who accepts me in spite of the things I can't change about myself, who loves me truly.

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About you : most things are not a dealbreaker for me. I am accepting of almost everything. I don't have high requirements from a partner, but i have basic expectations in that you put in consistent effort.

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My Personality : I am an open book person and will reveal a lot of information about me pretty soon. I see no point in give you a false idea of what i am not or showing myself as someone different to match up with your expectations from a person. But i'm willing to adapt and change myself to become better and more compatible/suitable up to an extent. My empathy is based on either logic or the suffering i've myself gone through. So don't expect me to be the super feeling types but i'm not stone cold as well.

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to summate what i am :

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My good aspects : Honesty, logic, communication-skills, modesty , diligence , adaptability ,

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Average aspects : looks , money, knowledge, fitness and physical health

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My weak aspects : i often feel like I'm not good enough for other person. I am blunt, say hurtful inappropriate things sometimes, my career / education

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I am a hopeless romantic. Mix of sapiosexual and demisexual. But not entirely since physical attraction matters too.

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So, I'm looking for someone patient yet practical , but still believes in true affection. Not necessarily a fairytale romance, but where we really care about each other. A relationship based on honesty and transparency. Only slight trust is necessary, else logic can make up for the lack of faith, since blindly believing someone is also risky.

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I'll write ten assorted facts about me to help you figure out if i'm good match -

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1. I neither believe in god nor disbelieve.

2. life of course has a purpose , but I wish I was strongly motivated to work on it

3. I have no pets but I love animals so much that I decided to turn vegetarian

4. I don't have much of a relationship history. But I have had experiences interacting with many women online.

5. while i'm parsimonious in general about spending, I never compromise on things of importance like nutrition. I love electronics and technology. I'm a big fan of open source apps, being a programmer.

6. while i'm pretty frank and straightforward, it comes with the drawback that my words end up being hurtful. Afterall , no one likes to be pointed the truth.

7. I love hugs and cuddles and giving massage. But my primary love language is acts of service.

8. while I do have preferences, i'm not rigid. I'm pretty versatile and adjusting to your needs as long as you are the same. But I leave it to you mostly where you would like to take our relationship forward. I'm also not in a rush to decide about commitment. We can discuss pros and cons of our decisions and express our individual desires before arriving at a joint decision.

9. I get into debates a lot. I always have a counter argument. And I appreciate if you get into a logical non heated discussion with me on the ideas we differ in. Like good conversation starters can be - Whether the saying "we need to love ourselves before someone can love us" is true / false. Or should couples be allowed to check each other's phone anytime. Do you think people deserve to know the true reason when they are turned down in dating/ professional settings or is it sometimes more practical to give an excuse or no reason at all.

10. I don't want kids. I prefer being childfree. My life situations and ethical beliefs and overpopulated state of world are some reasons for that.

11. I have no interest in smoking, drinking, addictive substances, piercings, hair dyeing, superstitions , horoscope, tarot, manga, cars, bikes, watches etc. Used to like some games and anime when I was younger but not anymore. Traveling is only fun with a partner and not without.

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My life philosophy -

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- happiness is something temporary and relative to our past state, so running after it is futile. We rather take all good pains (like exercising, yoga) and focus on productivity. Struggles will make the reward much sweeter.

- we find pleasure in food only after having experienced the pain of hunger, or sleep feels restful only after a hard day's work. That's why it's impossible to be happy unless there's sadness or pain preceding it. Or we can only appreciate light if we experienced darkness.

-It's impossible to avoid hardships and suffering and be permanently happy.

-Enjoying path is more important than doing things just for expectations of happiness from an outcome.

-We shouldn't assume anything unless proven. It's alright to have beliefs but not let them cloud our rationality.

-If I don't gracefully take good pains, environment will give me bad pains anyhow. But progress will be hindered. Bad pains will cause damage to my mind, body, good pains will cause my growth.

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Please message me if you related with anything of the above or even if you are of a different mindset.