High standards and low tolerance - I am very specific in what I'm looking for and actively/aggressively seeking my person, so I ask that you read my post in full and respond only if you meet the criteria, else I will immediately block you. I am also not looking for casual, but excellent sex is a critical element in a successful relationship for me.

You:

26-38M

Local to New England

Single (no ENM)

Will send a thorough intro message followed soon after by a sfw photo

Most likely racially white, sturdy/fit build, and conventionally attractive, well-dressed, and good hair. Not into piercings, excessive tattoos.

Educated/intelligent/erudite (at least a bachelor's, preferably more)

Ambitious with a successful and stable career

Good conversationalist with a really solid sense of humor and interests, passions, and hobbies

Politically liberal, feminist, anti-racist, and all that good stuff

Looking for a serious long-term relationship resulting in marital commitment and eventually a family

Highly affectionate

Good communicator with emotional intelligence. Points if you're happily in therapy as well.

Sexually: above average endowment, enjoys passionate, frequent, and fun sex, leans dominant, extremely skilled in pleasure as well as consent and care. We can talk more about this topic in chat.

Me:

White, curly dark blonde hair, blue eyes, curvy and a little chubby, but well proportioned (5'4 185lbs), generally considered quite attractive

Well-eductated, young professional with a very stable but potentially somewhat mobile career

Atheist/anti-theist, prefer you be as well, or at least agnostic or uninterested in faith.

Initially somewhat shy/introverted. An extroverted partner historically balances me well. I am quite chatty though, as well as witty.

Highly affectionate, and has often felt that I cared more than past partners. Looking for someone that makes an equal effort to make me feel loved. I'm not super needy and codependent, and I enjoy my personal time, but I still like to feel cared for.

Enjoys literature, travel, good food (cooking or restaurants), intellectual stimulation, time spent with animals or children, good coffee, naps, and work-life balance.

Feel free to ask anything else!