I'm looking for a guy within 18-22 (no exceptions), who's ambitious, young with an old soul, who is emotionally available and is also looking for a long-lasting relationship. I'm alcohol friendly with moderation (obv drinking problems are a dealbreaker). As for preferences, I lean strongly to buff/lean, muscular Caucasian guys. I am not into neckbeards as I've gotten plenty of messages from guys who don't fit what I'm looking for. So if you're not the type of guy Im describing above, please dont waste my time trying to weazel your way in.

Personality wise, I would like someone who is empathetic, kind, who I feel can understand me, and is cognizant in the cruelty of the world since my life is best described as that of a 'tragic tale of a tragic character''

About me: Asian, 6'1", I'm doing a masters in International relations, with plans to go into government. Ideally, I'd like to work in D.C. politics with wanting to work in the Pentagon or DoD to do some consulting work. However, depending if I meet a fellow Aussie, I'm more than willing to stay within the country if I feel we are mutually compatible.

I like to game: Dying Light, Cities Skylines, GTA IV, American Truck Sim. I also like to learn vegan recipes even not being a vegan myself.

I'm a big foodie, whether that'd be Mediterranean food, Middle Eastern, Indian (i love curries also), seafood, or spicy food. I've also taken a liking to Azerbaijani food as well as Eastern European.

I'm also an aspiring runner for which I joined my uni's social running club

The big obstacle.... I'm a pre-op transgirl. I'm looking for a guy who's secure in his masculinity, not fazed by any insecure notions of fragile masculinity. However, I'd like to hope (however fruitless or not) that the younger generation, like Gen Z'ers are more LGBTQ accepting. For any older guys, I'm sorry but I want a relationship where I'm not subject to being emotionally abused (personal experience... not great) nor feel like I'm missing out more in life by settling into a post 30 year old life.

I'd like to live my youth still whatever I have left, and enjoy those moments with someone in similar life stages of being in college also or who's entering college. I also do not desire children ever.

After having numerous LDR's fizzle out, I would like to have a stable relationship. Due to me still being in college and doing a Masters, I can't travel abroad right now unfortunately.

Will only reply to well written responses so short messages will get ignored.

Pls be in Australia/NZ or N. America pref I'd like someone local but not holding much hope. Frankly, I'm not hoping given this is reddit