Points to you if you happen to remember the reference from the cutest video of all time.

God, I’m horrible at keeping these succinct and I shouldn’t be because I’ve written quite a few of these in my day. I should be dusting the ’ol shoulder off. Yet, here I am again, putting myself out there without the confetti cannons of happiness and fashion and girlygurl-ness of my SFW profile and leaning into a more raw introduction of myself and what I think I’m looking for.

Which is fun. Someone to connect with. Someone to be silly with. A man who is interested in the world around him and working to better himself every dang day, one step at a time. I’m a goof, an affectionate lil’ lady, a competitive beast, a fighter for those I love and basic human decency for those I may never meet, a girl’s girl who loves all things feminine but can get down with a weekend fishing or hitting the paintball fields — as long as we’ve got some drinks flowing at the end of the day. I’m looking for a man who, when asked to talk about himself can easily list his passions, what makes him smile, his goals, his fears, and maybe throw in a little razzle dazzle of a joke in there. Nuance, babyyy, that’s what I’m looking for. And for you to be 32 , ideally in the EST time zone but for the right person I could make it work. Race doesn’t matter to me; however, I’m not looking for people who are not interested in children (down the road! No time soon lol).

Me? Let’s start with the physical stuff. I’m a short girly, 5’1” with noticeable, healthy curves. I am a fan of running/spinning and while I do have a sweet tooth/talent for baking and cooking, I balance the snickerdoodle desires with ginger shots and plenty o’ brussel sprouts. I am Black, have all of my fingers and toes and lovely teeth. I dress well, take care of myself, am educated, and have no problem sharing photos for you to check out this 10/10 for yaself (joking, kinda sorta :p)

Anyways!! I’m at a point where I’m considering what it might look like to meet someone meaningful. How it could be nice to build something, or make friends along the way. Maybe I’ll be pleasantly surprised :) if you’re interested in poking this gals heart, share something interesting on your mind or heart in my messages.

Talk soon & take care ❤️