"Choosing the person that you want to share your life with, is one of the most important decisions any of us makes, ever. Because when it’s wrong, it turns your life to grey. And sometimes... Sometimes you don’t even notice until you wake up one morning and realize years have gone by." — Cecelia Ahern

I actually post here several times but I haven't found a good match due to the fact that I'm a sensitive person and people are mostly in a rush. And being insensitive. It takes quite some time for me to get to know someone. Hopefully, you wouldn't mind me being anxious at first.

But have you ever thought about the fact that your soulmate is somewhere out there? Living their life, not knowing someone is super desperate to meet them. Because we don't see the future. They don't even know we will have an amazing time together filled with joys, laughs, tears and cuddles.

I am 28 years old, 4'11 Asian. I have a pretty promising career and I enjoy what I do. I like to think I'm pretty good with what I do. It's fun to wake up everyday and meet various people and help them out. It makes me feel good about myself when I could put a smile on someone's face.

I am a hopeless romantic, so it's rare to find a like minded. I'd like to break the ice, get to know the real you and care for you. It's just how I am. I like to care for others. Hopefully, I'll get the same attention back from you too. (This girl also needs a hug!) Most times I talk about my feelings unfiltered. I don't know if that's a pros or cons of me but I like to be straightforward about things to most people. My love languages are words of affirmation and acts of service. So you might find me being clingy and text you all day or cook you a meal instead of telling you how special you are to me. I really value love and romance. It's a big part of my life and it is something I've been wanting to experience.

About me: I enjoy films, series, music, exercise, and cooking. Pop culture stuff in general. I do enjoy cuddling and feeling the warmth and intimacy once I get to know someone and fully trust them. Sounds like an easy date night in a cozy home? Yes, turn Netflix on, the snacks are ready! I'm also super clingy. Hope you don't mind that.

I enjoy laughing at small jokes (sometimes it's a dark humor and my devil pity me!), memes are essential and there's not too much time looking at cute, funny pictures of derpy pets. I found humor is essential, we face so many obstacles in life and it's like light in the dim days that keeps us going. So if you like to smile and enjoy laughing, you're my man.

Compatibility is important. That's why I'd like to call it soul-match instead of soulmate. I'm easy-going and down to earth. Enjoying the simple life. Generally, I just enjoy good conversations. I like to be straightforward so I'll lay all the cards on the table. If you wonder about me, sexually, I like to think I'm a switch. I'm opened minded and probably say yes to anything you bring up into the conversation. Enjoying the ride with someone I care about is something I'm looking forward to exploring in the future.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for something serious that could turn into a long term friendship/relationship. I don't mind the distance as long as there's an actual plan we make, to close the gap. I don't know where this road will lead us, hopefully 2 kids and some pets along the way? Building a warm family is my goal and I wanted that to happen someday.

About you: I hope you are caring and don't mind me being sensitive and anxious at times. You can be anywhere, anyone. But if you're willing to put an effort in this... You're my man. Communication is everything. (If we match. I'd like to make it serious and hopefully we could meet up someday. It will be ideal if you come here to meet me.)

Not sure if it's enough to catch your attention. (Please do. Haha) I'm down to answer any other questions you have. Just ask. :)

Ps. I only check my DM, the instant messaging in this app gets lost easily. And I don't want you to feel like I ignore your message. I just don't open them in the chat feature. I'm more used to the old reddit and only check messages on the direct message. Feel free to say hi, hopefully, we could end our searching. :)

(Preferably, someone around my age, not older than 40 years old and willing to make effort in engaging in conversation.)

Sidenote: You can always send me a message if this post is still up and you found it interesting. No matter how long it's been... A day, a month, a year or three. Let's chat.