Hi. I'm a 29 year old straight male, looking to meet a fellow nerdy girl online cause dating sites aren't working, hopefully for a long term relationship.

About me. I'm 5'10'', mixed race (Asian/White). I look predominantly Asian. Muscular, but not gym rat jacked. In vanilla life, my biggest hobby is gaming. I play on PC and Switch mostly, and it is a dealbreaker that I want someone to enjoy my hobby with me. If you don't like games or think they're childish, it's not gonna work. I can cook, clean, and I take care of my pets, so I'm good with cats and dogs. I prefer cats over dogs, but I like animals in general and am happy to have both if you're a dog person. More exotic pets are also ok, but just know that I don't have experience with them and will probably be uncomfortable with like, tarantulas or things of that nature. I exercise fairly regularly mainly with my home gym. I also enjoy reading and writing. I like fantasy the most, but sci-fi is also good. I play D&D with my online friends. I enjoy watching shows and movies with loved ones. I'm definitely more of a homebody, preferring nights-in instead of nights-out. I used to live and work in Japan for 5 years, and I moved back to the States during the pandemic. I can speak and read Japanese to a limited degree; I would put it at a "competent conversational" level.

What I'm looking for:

Personality-wise -I tend to be laid-back and like to joke around, but I will say I can have strong opinions about some things and can be intense in regards to those opinions in particular. But I don't really like butting heads, cause I find it tiring, so being open to communication is a must. I try to temper my strong opinions with a healthy dose of introspection, so I would hope to ask for a similar mindset if you are also strongly opinionated/Type-A personality. Type-B personalities are more than welcome. But overall, I prefer relaxing rather than being hyperfocused. I'm interested in ages 21-33. I'm willing to talk if you fall outside of that range, but we would need to talk more if you do. I don't have kids of my own, but I would like to have bio kids eventually (not anytime soon), so again, that has to be something you're ok with or it won't work. I'm 420 tolerant. I hesitate to say friendly cause I do not partake in any substances, but if you want to drink a beer/wine or eat a gummy, I don't mind. Just know that I don't do any of that. I'd prefer no smoking of anything though.

Physical Appearance-wise - Height does not matter to me. Weight-wise, I would prefer someone who at least values exercise, though for me I'd prefer skinnier versus overweight. I'm in shape and workout to keep it that way, but I'm not jacked or hyper-athletic. I do believe in reciprocity however, so I would just ask that you are willing to exercise; I would actually prefer someone who wants to be a gym buddy. A little meat on your bones is fine, even preferred in most scenarios, but I also can't be your own personal trainer if you are looking for a weight loss journey.

I prefer Whites or Asians (I wonder why) but I am also open to talking. Sadly, tattoos and non-ear piercings are a big turn-off for me; nothing personal, I like that tattoos and unconventional piercings are personal/important to people for self-expression, my brain just can't stomach the look of them. I can maybe deal with one or two small tattoos, but it's not my cup of tea, so if you're addicted, it's not gonna work out either.

For full disclosure, I am not asexual, and would like to have a physical relationship at some point, which I mention to avoid surprises. But I am in no rush, and won't push the subject. Taste-wise, I am also a boob-guy, so ideally you have more of a chest than average. Physical attraction is just as important as personality to me, so I hope you understand in regards to that as well. I also have other, spicier tastes as well, but to avoid being removed, you'll have to ask me about that in private.

If you're still here and all of this sounds appealing to you, send me a private message or a chat, whichever. I'm ok with talking on Reddit for the initial bits, but I would like to/plan to move somewhere else like Discord later on. SFW pictures are available upon request; I will ask for some pictures early on and provide my own just so we know who we are talking to and to see if we fit each other's tastes. Video calls I also expect at least once, to verify we are not catfish, but if things go well, I am fine with video calls when requested.