I'm a soon-to-be 26 y.o. kissless virgin and I live in New Zealand where sex work is completely legal and treated as a legitimate trade by many people. I recently posted in an adult forum that's affiliated with the most popular escort/working girl website asking for thoughts on whether or not it was a good idea to lose my virginity that way. Pretty much everyone encouraged me saying it's a good way to have that experience, especially with the right girl, and many posters even recommended specific girls, some of whom also showed up in the thread explaining how/why they would make it special. I've pretty much decided this is what I'm going to do, and I've already narrowed my shortlist to three well-reviewed women (the site has a moderated sub-forum specifically for escort reviews).

It's no longer a question of if, but when.

I have no one else to discuss my decision with so I just wanted to share.