Maybe it’s just me, but I feel as if this fetish or kink (whichever you have) has vastly evolved into a chaotic way. I feel as if when it was more hidden, it had more of a sentimental/sensual being whereas when it came to public fruition, it has become more of an abused kink populated by findom and dominant nature posts portraying stepping and causing harm to others.

I guess what I mean is, when I used to talk to other foot fetish oriented people, they would freely talk to you. Want to compare things, bounce ideas off of one another or even roleplay. Whereas today, (and I understand it’s 2024 and nothing is free) I see a lot of people immediately jump into paying to talk, demanding servitude and promoting pain oriented content. And that’s another thing I don’t understand. I have seen A LOT of submissive oriented people asked to be stepped on, stomped on, walked on with heels etc, I just don’t understand why it would ever be asked to do. Is it the fantasy oriented thrill that appeals to that similar to those who have a kidnapping fantasy kink (from erotic books or even reading forums)

Granted at the end of the day, your kinks are your kinks, just feel like the whole thing has changed. Feel free to put your thoughts into this, have no issue talking!