I'm 47 and have been with my husband since we were teens. Early life we were swingers but now it's more hotwife style play because of medical problems on his end. Last week I took the time and expense to get everything looking and smelling nice. Then I got a room in a nice hotel with excellent lighting. I posted in a local r4r looking for a guy to come worship my feet. Out of about 90 responses I only had 1 that even mentioned my feet.

How do I go about posting for this? I'm experienced at doing it for swinging or hotwife play. I figured finding 1 good foot guy in a metropolitan area of 7 million would be easy. How do I look at responses and find people with a genuine kink and not someone saying whatever to get laid.

I also want to mention... THIS IS MY KINK! I just want to experience it once with someone that feels the same way and would be able to share our kink together.