Open to starting online, building trust, and seeing where it goes—ideally with someone younger who’s into a guy like me.
About Me:
38, 280 lbs of dad-bod realness (down over 50 lbs and counting!), bearded, glasses-wearing IT manager with a former military streak—tours in Japan, England, Iraq. I’m up early hitting the gym 4-5 days a week, then diving into gaming, anime, Universal trips, or a good movie. Grew up in the Northeast, bounced through cold climates, and now I’m a Florida lifer—sunshine’s my jam, and I’m not leaving. I’ve got a steady life, a geeky soul, and bigger plans we can unpack later.
What I’m Looking For:
A younger woman (20s, early 30s?) who’s drawn to an older guy with some miles on him—think steady hand, playful heart. I’m after that submissive spark: a girl who loves me taking the lead, with a traditional vibe that’s all hers. Let’s start online, vibe over messages, then move to dates when it feels right. Bonus if you’re into Florida life or geeky stuff—Universal dates could be our thing.
Kinks & Connection:
I’m big on talking—tell me what you crave, I’ll spill mine, and we’ll explore together. Into CNC, free use, bondage, cosplay, collars (love seeing one on you out in public), degradation in play, and cuddling after. No experience needed—just curiosity and honesty. I’m not here to rush; I want trust, chemistry, and a girl who’s all in for the ride.
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