I am looking for my life partner. I want to find my one special woman with whom I look forward to spending my time and likewise she looks forward to spending her time with me. The time we spend together should be the highlight of both of our days. There's no disparity in interest because we both feel the same irresistible urge to be with one another. It feels so special to us both and we cherish it above all else.

I want to text each other sweet nothings and call on the phone just to hear each others voices even when we have nothing to say. If we run out of words it's ok, just knowing that you're on the other end of the call makes my day.

Eventually, I want us to be together. I want us to delight in our warm and loving embrace every day. I want us to look into each others eyes and feel at home. I want us to be a team that works together toward our common goals. I want my very special woman who wants all of this with me just as much as I want it with her.

[Here's a picture of me from a recent chalk art festival I had the pleasure of participating in](https://i.imgur.com/xVGXWFX.jpg) (Yes I have braces)

[Here's a pic of me holding one of my cats! (pre-braces)](https://i.imgur.com/6dmGBPx.jpg)

I am 44m, separated pending divorce and we do not live together.

I am currently in college and doing very well at it (maintaining a 4.0 GPA) working toward a degree in Computer Science. I'm a total nerd. I live in Florida. I have two cats and a big goofy dog. I'm into my pets, plants, art, music, documentaries, movies/shows, cooking, fishing, occasional games, coding, history, politics, and more. Right now I'm really into growing Trichocereus genus cacti. At this point most of my free time is taken up by my studies, extracurricular clubs at the college, tending to my cacti, and chores around the house.

I'm on the spectrum and have ADHD. I'm more of an introvert at first, especially around strangers. But once I get to know somebody I come out of my shell. I guess that makes me an ambivert. In class I am usually one of the most active participants, but social settings without a clearly defined goal can be intimidating. Until I get to know you, of course.

I lost a lot of weight about 10 years ago. I have not had cosmetic surgery so I have flabby skin. In my clothes I look like I've always been slim and fit. Basically, I have a secret dad bod. I'm into body positivity and open to a range of body shapes and sizes in a potential partner.

I like to joke around a lot. I am a generally positive person. I have hope for the future. I see the beauty in humanity. The small things are so important. Like sitting close and watching a movie, holding hands, looking forward to embracing at the end of the day, good morning texts, etc. I want someone special to share my life with. I'm open to an age difference in either direction as long as we get along well together.

I'm a Medical Marijuana patient. I don't drink alcohol. I'm on the left side of the political spectrum. I'm very creative. I want to find my one special person to bond with. Someone to get along with, love, and be loved. If you're interested, feel free to message me!