This is new to us, this is all her idea, and I'm (Husband) just trying to make it happen.

Wife is 43, straight, submissive, 5'4, Blue Eyes, she is from Iceland

Husband is 44, straight, 5'11, Latin/White

We have tried to set this up before, and it has not worked out, trying a different approach.

My wife has always enjoyed being the center of attention for multiple men at the same time, but she wants to take this further and have sex with one (or more) men at the same time, I have known for a while and I'm OK with this under the right circumstances, and trying to make it happen.

The problems so far have been of the who, finding someone who is a good fit, but also someone who would respect our limits.

This is something my wife wants, not something she needs, it would be great if she can find what she is looking for, but she knows what she wants, and is sticking to it, if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen.

We have tried to find someone online, but so far we have not been able to find someone she was comfortable with, but she has been very open about letting my friend fuck her, at the moment I don't think that's a good idea, but perhaps finding a new friend, with her input, who is OK with what she is looking for, and with her knowledge, try to build a friendship and move on from there.

We are looking for someone who we can meet regularly, once a month, maybe more, if time allows, she has a very high sex drive.

Its OK if you are married, or have a girlfriend, however she would need to be sure that Wife/Girlfriend approved of this, wife is not into men who are cheating.

Interested in older than 25, but not older than 50.

Not interested in men who smoke, vape, no interested on men who do any drugs.

Not interested in men who would be sleeping with other women, she likes to be the center of attention (With the exception of wife or girlfriend of course).

He needs to get tested, and at least at the beginning, condoms are required, this could change in the future, or not, but he needs to be OK that she might ask him to keep condoms on indefinitely.

He needs to be comfortable been seen in public with her, its fine if you only want to be seen as friends in public.

She loves well dressed men with good hygiene

No anal

Only straight men

No oral on her (Except from husband)

She wants DVP

She would like oral from husband while being fucked

She loves to suck dick, she swallows

She is submissive, she likes to be reminded of this too.

She loves gentleman

She has a few things that she loves to do because she loves to be the center of attention.

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