About me:

5'9" currently 295lbs, down 50lbs, glasses with a beard. I go to the gym 4-5 days a week first thing in morning. Work in IT as a manager full time. Former military tours in Japan, England, and Iraq. I am into gaming, anime, trips to Universal, movies. Have a few greater plans on the horizon but that can be discussion for another time. I love living in Florida after growing up in the the northeast and living in several cold climates as such I do not intend to leave the state. There are a few links to some photos in my profile if you want something more recent lets talk.

What I'm looking for:

As the title says I'm looking for a partner that has a submissive streak to them pretty close to that 1950s wife energy. I am open to starting conversations and the like online and trying to build that level of trust and interest through things like discord. Ideally I'm looking to go out on dates and get to know one another more intimately. Now to be clear I use the phrasing of them because I am open to this partner being a femboy as well as a girl. Sadly this group won't let me make two posts within 7 days so this is my way of letting those bois that look, act, and feel more like women they can reach out as well.

Kinks, because what are we here for:

Communication is big for me as I like to try new things and experiment. I want my partner to be open with me and relay their wants and desires as much as I do to them. This is healthy and needed in my view for any relationship. Some of my kinks include CNC, bondage, cosplay, collars, and cuddling. Do I expect to find someone interested to try them all, no. I do want this partner to be up front and say if they are into things or not though, again communication. Collars though are particularly big for me personally because I love the symbolism of a collar/choker especially when we go out.