Hi there, I'm feeling stuck in a marriage where the affection only goes one way and it's led to a dead bedroom. Looking to chat with someone who understands the need for discretion and is also in a long-term relationship or married like myself, as well as being open to occasional meetup when schedules align.

I am in my early 30s, attractive, half korean, 6’1 tall with more of a chubby dad bod, no kids but have a few pets. Have been told I have a cute baby face and nice smile and have nice thick hair. Would say I am into nerd/geek culture, above average height, and resemble a mixture of Russell from the movie Up and Nick from New Girl. A bit sarcastic, so I think I have a great sense of humor and try to find the fun in every situation. I'm also very affectionate and one of my top love languages is touch, so love to cuddle and give massages.

I don't necessarily have a type, though I must admit that I've always been attracted to more mature, experienced women who know what they want and aren't afraid to go after it. If it leads to the bedroom, ideally looking for someone who likes being more submissive as I enjoy being more dominant in bed and am very much into foreplay. Not a deal breaker though, as I'm always open to exploring new things and trying out different kinks and fetishes, as long as it's consensual and safe. I care more about finding that missing passion, so it's important that we are both enjoying ourselves.

Outside of the bedroom, I'm into music, reading books, taking photos, and watching art films. So it's a definite bonus if you are someone who's mature, confident, independent, and can keep up with my energetic and adventurous spirit.

With that being said, I'm not looking to meet immediately but would like someone to chat with to find chemistry before meeting and would like something ongoing. So,let's get to know each other and see where things go.