Hey,

I’m looking for a youngish straight guy local to Swindon for an in-person findom relationship.

My ideal relationship would be serving you in person (cleaning, chores, errands, you get the idea), and paying for the privilege. I wouldn't describe myself as a finsub, because the act of sending someone money doesn't really do anything for me in itself - but if it's backed by a genuine connection, relationship, and a desire to serve and worship, I really do enjoy it.

On the more “extreme” end of my findom interests, I find the idea of being turned into an ATM/livestock a huge turn-on. I’d love for sending you money to eventually bring me to orgasm, and for all intents and purposes to constitute “sex” for me. I appreciate that that’s quite a long-term play, but I do believe with the right guy and under the right circumstances, it is achievable.

I'd really like to find a guy I can grow to genuinely worship, and to have those feelings used to train, mould and manipulate me into genuine obedience, service, and eventually, some serious financial pain.

I have a range of kinks and fetishes that I’d love for you to weaponise in the pursuit of draining my cash, and you can find a pretty exhaustive list on my other posts.

To be clear, I’m not looking to drain my bank account for the first guy who messages me, and ideally I would like to meet before we get into anything. Initially I think I’d be at the level of paying for condoms and dates and things like that, but if we meet up and things go well, I can see us building up quite quickly from there.

I appreciate that this isn't going to be what most findoms are interested in, but I thought I'd put myself out there and give it a shot.