Hi, I was born in the Philippines, but my family immigrated to the US back in the early 70s when I was just 5 years old. (I’ll let you do the math on my age)

Fast forward to now, and I’ve made the big decision to live in Manila full-time. It’s been three years, and while I’ve adjusted to the culture and lifestyle here, I’ll admit—it’s not always a walk in the park. Filipino time? Oh, it’s real sht here, What takes a day back in the US somehow stretches into weeks here.

And then there’s the whole smaller personal space thing—it’s a bit of a challenge for someone used to wide-open spaces. But hey, I’m learning to roll with it. Venting aside, I’ve come to appreciate this new chapter of my life. I’ve definitely become less stressed and more present, living for the moment rather than the hustle.

Despite the occasional frustrations, I truly believe I made the right decision. The Philippines has its quirks, but it’s a beautiful, vibrant place that’s teaching me new things every day. Plus, Filipinos here are incredibly kind, friendly, and non-confrontational—it’s such a refreshing vibe. I'd like to hear from fellow Filam who made the same move.