Reddit Username: u/IV_Your_Pleasure

Stage Name: Miss Kay

Age: 40-44

Location: Wisconsin

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1) What types of adult content do you currently provide?

Masturbation, Panty Showoff, Stripping, Body Showoff, EFRO (including pee), Wedgies, Shower, Changing Room/Try On, etc - ALL SOLO

2) Which Communities are your favorite to list your products and services to?

FBC and Fetish Haven subs

3) Are there any other selling platforms that you use outside of Reddit?

Not currently

4) For how long have you been selling fetish items? How did you find out about it in the first place? Tell us a little about your personal story and how you came to selling fetish products and services.

I've been a fetish provider for going on 4 years. I was always interested in it, and went for it while recovering from chemo (lymphoma) in 2021. I wasn't able to work yet and couldn't do much else, so I had all the time in the world to get started and figure it out!

5) Are you open about providing fetish services online with people in your personal life, or is this something that you choose to keep a secret?

Quite a few people know, as I think it's awesome and nothing to be ashamed of. But quite a few people don't know either, because it would cause more issues than bringing it up is worth! And it's fun having a private thing going on sometimes. :P

6) Is this your main source of income or a sideline? If this is a side hustle, what field are you in for your career?

It's a super fun side hustle! That being said, I would definitely feel the monetary loss if I stopped. I'm a veterinary technician 'in real life', which is my dream job. So between this and that I'm basically working two dream jobs. ;)

7) So what about your free time? What are your hobbies, what are you passionate about? What do you spend your time with when you're not online pushing your goods?

I like reading, drawing, painting, time with my boyfriend and my dog, singing, learning ASL, traveling, hiking, playing darts, and all kinds of other things. My interests are all over the place.

8) What are your goals for the future, where do you see yourself in 5 years?

I recently moved from Arizona to the midwest, and within a few years I hope to be a full fledged snowbird minus the retirement. This desert goth ain't tryna die in this frozen hellscape every winter!

9) Tell us about your favorite type of customer. What criteria do they have that makes them a pleasure to work with?

I love when I meet guys who are kinky and very sexual, but are still normal respectful people. Someone who communicates well and in detail, and also someone who doesn't beg for more than what he pays for! And someone who sees me as a fellow human being, not an orgasm vending machine. lol

10) Tell us something about your average customer. What kind of person buys your stuff? How old are they? Are they single or in a relationship? How can we imagine them?

Ages vary wildly, therefore their manner and circumstances do too. But I'd say overall my customers skew a little more mature - 30s to 50s and fully on their own two feet. As for single or not, that's about 50/50.

11) Tell us about your weirdest experience so far as an adult content provider.

Probably the most off the wall photo request I've gotten is someone who wanted photos of just my uvula (vore type kink).

More recently, I had two first time (for me) customers after the same pair of panties for a custom wear. I told Customer 2 I was still in discussion with Customer 1 but if 1 didn't follow through then they'd be up for grabs and I'd let him know either way. 2 hounded me the whole time, asking if 1 followed through, what exactly he was ordering for his wear, and that he would pay me for whatever 1's order was if I gave them to him instead. Which I wouldn't do, because you know, integrity and all. lol Customer 1 actually didn't end up following through, so 2 did pay for everything 1 had asked for, which included a specific video, and seemed to really get off on 'stealing' his order. Before I even wore the pair for him, he said he didn't want them anymore but that I could keep the money. I wasn't arguing with that and the experience still gave him a thrill, so....win win I guess! lol

12) Have you ever connected with a buyer beyond buying/selling?

A few of them I have had some additional conversation with or even reached out to see how they are here and there unrelated to buying. Mostly I try to keep it to friendly/flirty business though because it can be a slippery slope.

13) What's the biggest misconception about sex work? What's the worst prejudice?

The biggest misconception I run into is that I'm here because I'm 'desperate' or can't get/hold a 'real job'. Kind of along the same lines, some guys seem to think I'm waiting with my phone glued to my hand waiting for their messages because I have nothing else going on in my life. When in reality this is my side hustle, I do it because I love it, and I'm a very busy person with a full life.

As far as prejudice, I'd say that's mostly in real life with people looking down on you because you're 'immoral' or not viewing this as a real or valid job. That's why some people in my life don't know. I don't need my religious extended family clutching their pearls or have a boss potentially think less of me, or whatever.

14) How important is staying anonymous to you? Do you show your face? Have you ever met a customer in person?

I show partial face, which is more than I used to show. If someone really wants to find me, obviously they can pretty much no matter what precautions I take. I'm not too worried about people recognizing me or someone I know seeing me online, but obviously I have to think about safety. So I meet in the middle and show partial face. I don't do meetups of any kind, but I did have a follower recognize me at a concert back home once which was pretty surprising! Even more surprising because he was only visiting the area from across the country and we ended up in the same place.

15) What is your favorite product or service to provide?

Panties and sexting!

16) What do you enjoy most about doing this, what makes it fun to you and what has kept you going?

I love kink - indulging mine and learning about yours. I love sex, teasing, edging - I love to be the reason you get hard and get off even if it's long distance. ;P lol

17) What don't you enjoy so much about doing this? What are the downsides in your opinion?

Time wasters just trying to get free interaction or photos. Also tantrum throwers who lash out with name calling and such when they don't get their way. Just annoying and again a waste of my time.

18) Are there any fetishes or kinks that you discovered from the community and ended up really enjoying?

Well I already knew I liked it, but I got into humiliation/degradation (giving) a lot more heavily.

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