Seeing a few men reach out for tips I decided to make a common post. I have always liked playing with submissives with new story lines and to really get into their kinks. What have I learnt as lessons? This in no way is a complete list and a submissive can also help point out any errors

1. No two kinks are a like. She says she likes degradation? It could be out a physical feature, about her neediness for sex etc. Do not try to do a one size fits all

2. There is a human on the other side. They will have fear, anxiety, preferences. Do not try to treat them as a kink toy even if their kink is objectification.

3. Newer subs don’t know their tools at hand. They won’t know safe words or their right to stop. Tell them. It makes for better play.

4. Most helpful advice - be unique. Dont be the 7th man telling her “you are a slut now finger”. If you expect fun, be a fun person

5. Some girls like being posted. Tell her all risks, ask for clear consent. Make it safer for them to be posted.