"You can't give your life more time, so give the time you have left more life."

• About Me -

First and foremost, I'm a very compassionate, patient, and kind person. I'm geeky. I like video games, board games, and challenging to improve myself (therapy, cook book, etc.). I have some college education. Currently a Production Planner. 6"-0' tall. 195 lbs. BMI number is between 26 - 27. Actively working to lose more weight. Look fit except for a stress belly. Fair-skinned and redheaded. Greenish hazel eyes. If you are a Christian, please move on. SFW pictures: https://imgur.com/a/XLUWOg4

• My Partner -

Age range from 29 to 53. Needs to live with 1.5 hours of Nashville, TN. Would consider a LDR and ultimately I would relocate but I would not be able to do so until June, 2025. BMI numbers below 31. This may be negotiatable depending and body build. Not picky about height or hair color. Tend to not find ebony women attractive. I'm a sucker for tattoos and piercings, but not required. Looking for a truly deep emotional connection and emotional safe space. Needs to be a Gentle Domme in the least. Probably more the Classic Domme. Not sure about the Mistress/slave dynamic (atm).

• My Femdom Preferences -

Classic kink list: https://i.imgur.com/bptz8IT.png

Detailed kink list: https://i.imgur.com/Z5U82FG.png

My favorite kinks: - Cunnilingus / squirting - Chastity / keyholding / teasing / denial - Pegging and anal play

Hard limits: - Scat - Anything illegal - Cutting, mutilation, stabbing (even if small needles) - Animals (real ones) - Knife / edge play, gun play, rape scenario - "No safewords allowed" is unacceptable

Preferred D/s style: I want a long term, keyholding/chastity, D/s, bondage lovers relationship. If it had to be narrowed down then bondage with stimulants (paddles, floggers, vibrators). Have only been in exclusive relationships thus far in my life but open to trying new things and stretching my comfort levels and limits.

Previous D/s experience: I was in an online Mistress / sub relationship. Sent pictures and videos. Ended up being a scam. Was married to my Domme until she passed away. She was bi and anytime she was with a woman she was the dominant role. She was my gentle Domme. We had both gotten out of abusive marriages and learning how to stretch out our roots now that we were not confined to tiny, restrictive pots. We only had 10.5 months together so I'm still quite novice to the D/s dynamics. We were just starting to get our feet wet. I've done a great deal of self growth, exploration, reading, getting out there and making mistakes, and getting involved in the BDSM Community since beginning of August, 2024. We have to start somewhere.

Available toys and equipment: Motor bunny, HiSmith sex machine, several dildos, several cuffs, chastities, ball and ring gags, head harnesses, spreader bars, flogger, paddle, crop, cane, a few pairs of nipple clamps (regular and electric), Hitachi wand, two craw/hooks for anal play, and Buttplugs (all day wear, large short wear, remote control, electrified). I have a room that could be a sex equipment room. I think I'm a service sub, if that's a thing. I don't mean, "Make me your stool." I mean I feel the most loved when I'm able to give of myself to lessen the load on my partner. Let me do the laundry. Let me get the dishes. Let me help / learn to cook. If my emotional, connection needs are being met than these are not chores but truly satisfy rewards to give to my lover. And the feedback loop continues. Wait... Is this what a Dom feels when pleasing their sub? Anyway, always knew I had a servitude heart but it made more sense in my last relationship.

Please DM me here on reddit and I should respond within 24 to 48 hours. Please start your message with, "I find you worthy." If your profile does not have any images of yourself, please provide a picture with your message. If you do not feel comfortable sharing one that shows your face during this initial stage, that is reasonable and ok. I can share some NSFW pictures if you are curious. Just ask.